I am grateful for the wonderful people in my life. I have many true and good friends. I am thankful for a warm home, a comfortable bed, and all the love in my life. I am thankful and grateful for my health and just every aspect of being alive.

could they have moved it? I don't see it there.

It seems to me more than anything he needs to come to terms with who he is. It's a shame though that he can't realize that at least he has found someone who truly loves him. I don't know a whole lot about homosexual relationships ( not being small minded here), but I do know that from what I have heard it is even harder than in heterosexual relationships to find someone who is trustworthy and honorable. I hope that he learns to come to terms with himself, and finds happiness in the fact that he has found love that few can say. Good Luck to you and I hope that 2009 is your year!

I agree with the other's advice. Date around a bit. You don't seem to really have addressed that your bf is moving and that you will see less even of him. That's something to take into account also. I know we as human beings get so excited when we develop a connection, but like another poster said what will be will be. I often wonder why people stay together so long when they are so unhappy. My parents divorced because my mom was having an affair. It hurt, but it was better for us kids that they seperated rather than enduring the constant fighting.