No this is not normal for a Gemini. I am a male Gemini born 6/6/1967 and I am very affectionate. If I am feeling like my lady is acting bossy, I just grin and sometimes get turned on. I have always got along with Leos and never had a loss of conversation. But of course, you can only take this sign thing so far. You have to factor in life experience, how they were raised, ect. Basically, Someone can be a jerk without having to do with what sign they are. When it comes to being the center of attention, I am comfortable being in the background..