Beloved red35, Are you in the PA area? Don't worry he will not serve much time and will be home by the spring time. The public defender will plead his case. the evidence will not stand. this is just the final test that he must experience in order for him to not turn back to drugs. This will show him that truly this lifestyle is not worth it. I have a feeling he is Hispanic and is very good with construction esp indoors. Just hold on and the divine spirit will see him through

Hi Dafphodil,

I would like to give you divine advice. At the end of each storm there is always a beautiful rainbow. Unfortunately, as young girls we were sold on the story about the Prince and Princess living happily ever after. Well now we are adults and have experienced very turbulent heart wrenching relationships that have ended on a bad note. Hey Ken is no longer promoted with Barbie anymore Its all about Barbie's independence!! That fairy tale is long gone! We know the reality of true relationships surviving the test of time is slim to none. Not to say it isn't possible. Please look at what you have and not focus on what you don't have. You and your ex-husband came together for divine purpose and that is to have your beautiful child. I know it's not easy to move on. But dust yourself off and try again at living your best life now. Don't put all of your energy into the past. You need to live in the NOW...Your child needs you NOW. Your child could feel your discomfort. Show your child that you are strong. Your child's smile could light up the world, enjoy it! Tell yourself you are a divine spirit here to experience life and not death. So with that said, be thankful for the things you do have and don't focus on what's no longer here. Go out and spend time with your girlfriends. Write a journal about your feelings. Light a white candle around your house which would bring a peaceful vibration. Lastly, write a letter about how he has let you down, then end the letter by stating you will release him into the universe and that he will no longer have power over you anymore, then burn the letter in fire. I know all things will be well with you, May the divine bless you and your beautiful child because at the end of the day that is all that matters! Peace beloved!