I'm married to Cap man. I told him off a few times when we were planning our wedding, but nothing happened we still got married. But he did want to get married, so in that part there was no problem. If your Cap doesn't want to go further than friends, don't rush him, they hate it. It won't do you good. With a Cap you need a lot of patience, they don't do anything fast and spontaneous when it comes to love. Astrologer said Caps female are vengeful, but I've seen males just the same. So if you really want to go further with this man, always choose your words and acts wisely or he might change to be the worst man you've ever met. Learn to channel your frustration somewhere else so that it doesn't ruin it. All you can do right now is wait. You can probably try meet him, unexpectedly I mean. G'luck