My vote is move forward, or move on. I like the idea of Higher Education. Higher Education is becoming more valuable and education pays off!
What do you want more than anything else?
How are you doing at loving yourself and being your own best friend?
I was just reading yesterday that Gemini and Sag. usually don't last forever together, but there are other things to consider besides your sun signs such as where are your venus, mars, moon, ascendants and other planets.
My first X was a Gemini...Gemini's can be wishy-washy...but here I am with a rising sign in Gemini, so go figure...Every situation is different!
Consider comparing birth charts.
Just sharing some thoughts!
I agree that does not sound good at all! He picked a heck of a time to see his X. Not a good way to begin a relationship!
I had some time tonight to look closer at your elventh house. I read that you have good inspiration and genus in your thinking. I also read that there may be some optsticles to overcome and you may feel hindered by inadequecy.
I also read that you should sometimes beaware of your aloofness and anti-social behavior and to be aware that there may be some people in your life that are Not your true friends and they may not have your best interests.
Sounds like being positive will help you a lot!!!
Yes, that was for you, Ruddy. Good luck to you! Thats great to hear about your confidence in your career!
"Your career is characterized by guiding, encouraging,
taking care of others and, by example, teaching
responsibility. At its essence, your work assumes a
parenting role. The public sees you as an authority,
an expert, and powerful leader. Your career may start
small, but with persistence and patience (which you
have about your work even if you don't in other areas),
your work becomes a shaping force in people's lives."
Woolfolk
You have a lot of planets in your 11th house of social concerns this year. Actually there are four planets in your Pisces sun sign and your Neptune is in Aquaruis.Hang in there.
I am sorry to hear about your trouble. It sounds like he wants to stay with his wife and kids. I think you could find someone emotionally available. But I think you can find peace even if you are alone. What can you do for yourself to improve your life? You could take a course in something you are interested in and have been for a while.
It was a lot to hear about Farrah and Michael Jackson. Sorry to hear about your troubles Moondreams. I hope things begin to look up for you soon. 
So are you a double Capricorn? I imagine things will be looking up for you with Pluto in Capricorn.
I am sure that you will find someone in your area when the time is right to do a reading for you. Good luck to you! I am not Wiccan but I do appreciate the concepts of goddess worship. I also believe in magic and a Higher Power.