Be careful! You have answered your own question. As a Gemini who loves variety, I fell for the
"boyfriend" in two cases. It never works. Unless you want to live with a guilty conscience for the rest of your life, stop what you are doing and go to a counselor. It is up to you to examine your motives and what the long term consequences are to having affairs. Once you cross the line, you can't undo it. When it doubt, use the Golden Rule. Would you want your husband to do that to you? Do you really have to have two of everything, including people? THINK TWICE!