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Morning Hans, so its been a month and our relationship is going strong. Actually stronger then what both os us anticipated. He is a wonderful man stuck unhappily in the same situation as I. The winter months are upon us and we will see if our relationship can withstand the distance. I care for this man deeply and only hope we may have a future

Morning Hans,

Thanks for that and yes I do have one grandchild already. I see Angela is having some of the same issues as I. Ready to move on with her life, tired of being sad and mad all the time in her current stuation. Roomates with husband and no love and passion anymore, more like best friends. MY Gemini is married as is I and we do have a connection. He has brought up the subject of divorce to his wife and I have not, in my situation but I think im more ready then he. So you see us having a relationship in the future? I come to realize that life is too short to deal with unhappiness and anger. I make my happiness and I cant let others around me dictate and thats whay is happenning because I feel trapped. Trapped by vows, obligation, responsibilities and Im tired of being the only one who cares. Please help e find the path and figure out my our feeelings for one another.

HI Hans,

Thanks, but a little scary.....Im 44 years old and my Gemini man is 50, we dont need or want anymore "kids Running around" maybe grandkids?

hi hans, can you give me a read on my future wiht my gemini man my birthday is 08/12/66. thanks

HI Captain...........thanks...........My birthday is August 12

I totally know what youre saying and I have tried to work on my marriage. It takes two and my husband doesnt feel there is anything to work on. As youknow, us Leos are very outspoken so its not like I havent addressed my/our concerns in our marriage. He wont go to couseling, he doesn even want to talk about it. I have been left to feel unattractive and have lost confidence when I know I shouldnt and that im not unattractive. As far as his situation, hes been married a long time as well and had grown apart way before I came along. we are just riding it out till the kids get older.

Hello all,

Im new to this but Ive followed this websight for years. I need some advice. Im married and have met a gemini man. He is married also, we found each other through unhappiness really but Im concerned my feelings for him are so strong. Its almost like we should have found each other years ago. Neither one of us are in a position to leave our current situation for many years yet but I am finding that emotionally im a wreck. I want to be with him, I constantly think o him, always wondering what he is doing, if he is thinking of me while hes with his family. I have to tell you Im not young, ive been married for 16 years but there is so much missing from my marriage. Im not naive enough to not understand that because this is new and therefore interesting, im intriqued, but I want to know where we are headed. We see each other every week or two weeks, hes from out of state, the the in between times are so hard to get through. Yes, we are romatically involved and the chemistry is something ive never experienced even with my husband in the early years, but his passion and caring for me are on a deeper level as well. Its almost like we were meant to find each other. Here is my dilemma. Ive read all comments on Gemini men and I want to know if he im just one of his conquests. (im not his first affair) or is there really something there. It feels so real. Im a leo, but all I want right now in my life is to be cared for, taken care of and loved. Life is too short to be unhappy.......Please help me understand my gemini man...