just in case you didn't catch it there was some ad that was posted (and thankfully removed) right above my more recent post lol anyhoo i do wish this situation works itself out for you for your optimal happiness and all the good things that go with it i will just give one cautionary tid-bit, i am enamored of a scorp now i will call j, however a while before him i had a flirtation going on with another scorp i will call s... he decided on his on the distance to great and noticeably pulled back from me after i went for it so to speak. again don't know if this is a scorp thing afraid of his own emotions or what... however i am obviously kinda thankful he did as i don't think my eye would have ever landed on j...and i'm praying to god this one (j) is one i can keep! again gl and keep me posted!