Sorry I call BS there is nothing on this planet that can change any person's feelings for any other person except themselves.
I have said this before and I will say it again. Any path we walk on that involves us repeatedly bashing our heads against the wall is the wrong path.
Any lover who leaves us must return NOT because we are chasing or pining away or sitting and praying and waiting or casting spells.
The most powerful person in the world to attract any other person is YOU. you need to be grateful for the opportunity before you to reinvent yourself, CAST OUT the weaknesses, the insecurity, the body image problems, EMBRACE your body, mind, soul, spirit, strengths, likes, dislikes and be strong, let others know what really works for you and what doesn't .
YOU really are your own best friends, soul mate, etc. YOU control the thoughts of being attractive, smart, deserving, fun, beautiful, bountiful, etc. You get to write, star in and direct your own movie called YOUR LIFE
Ever notice how attractive people are when they walk talk and act with confidence as if they already have all they need and more would be great but they are not needy.
Trust me it works, I was a 317 lb woman going through a divorce, with a young son.
I remade my person. I was still large, still going to lawyers, still a single mom, but I made new friends, engaged in activities I always wanted to try, reinvented myself and along the way attracted the attention of many wonderful potential partners in life. Most of them were people I saw for a while, but I told them I did not want a serious relationship, I put up the parameters of who I saw , when I saw them and what I was willing to do, The stronger I was, the more poeple of substance and quality found me attractive. Sometimes I just told everyone I was busy because I wished to simply enjoy my own company.
Like magic, my pounds melted off, I met some one who is was really interested in. I never ever looked backward to see what I could cling onto from my past or fix or lure back to me. If someone wanted my attention they had to get my attention as I became a vivacious, busy, fun, self assured, self confident, proud person inside and out.
PLEASE< PLEASE don't chase a difficult past, go on to your rightful future, own it , make it and live it with all the choices in the world ahead of you and no regrets about the past.
My life now...............I have been with my wonderful man for 14 years We are both strong people that others find they are drawn to. We are COMPLETELY honest with each other whether the other will necessarily like what we have to say or not. We are completely in love. We are richer, happier and more socially busy than we ever dreamed, have already seen more of the world than we ever imagined. Neither of us puts any limits on what we believe we can do .
we are realistic, and know we sometimes have to wait to do everything we wish, but planning and researching future travels, workouts, restaurants is fun in itself.
BE STRONG and MAKE YOUR PRESENT and YOUR FUTURE.
PLEASE PLEASE DON'T LIVE IN THE PAST
Love and respect