Cracks me up how EVERY sign is "hot and cold" when it comes to MEN. How about screw the d*amn sign, MEN ARE JUST HOT AND COLD in general and COMMITMENT PHOBIC ALWAYS. Frustrating, but true.

No he's definitely not a virgin, but he's not promiscuous either. He's a very handsome, well built man. Sh*t I may as well put this out there too, he's a pro baseball player and I'm a model. We both have a lot of options but are both very picky and specific about what we want. We are practically the same person which is why he calls us bizarro twins.

Looks like trouble is in the air with Scorpios right now! Look at the board! A lot of inquires..that means something. I would look their horoscope and check out astrology to get additional insight..they're going into HERMIT mode big time.

this says it all "Because cancers more then any other sign can stand all alone on their own. No matter how much pain they've experienced they are capable of solitude that many others fail to comprehend. They don't need to be rescued they are looking for a special undefinable soul connection and love the search where ever it may lead. too bad hearts are broken along the way."

That is us!! I don't know how we bear such solitude and pain? Honestly I can be alone for days and never feel lonely! It's like my own thoughts and imaginations are completely entertaining and provoking. HAHA I also make myself laugh all the time! Even in the darkest hours I can laugh or cheer myself up. But when we hit a depression we hit it hard and deep, luckily our moods change so quickly we can quickly pull ourselves out of it.

Chevelleman, thats how I feel, I don't think a man or woman talks to someone for that long if they don't care or have romantic feelings! I know I don't! My friends are lucky to get me on the phone for 15 minutes. The thing is, the texing nice things, asking how he's been (usually at night too) hasn't really gotten me anywhere. He'll respond once or twice then nothing. Though he does respond very quickly. I'm feeling dumb because he hasn't initiated much besides the phone call last week and that was AFTER I text him and he called instead of doing text which I was happy about. Also, I'm very tenacious, I don't stop going after what I want until I get it, Sometimes I'm not sure if this is a good or bad thing or if that sort of ambition scares guys off? I just know what I want but I hear guys like to do the chasing? I'm just not into games and trying to play the mysterious card. I already told him that too...I also told him I was an alpha female within 10 minutes of meeting him and he liked it. He has always liked my confidence. I'm the one that went up to him when he smiled at me but was too shy to say anything (he told me this afterwards) BUt then he came after me and just as quickly withdrew. it's just so weird. I guess the only way to find out is to ask him and risk completely scaring him off. He will be here in 11 days and we haven't discussed it but my SA told me that Id see him and to address it in person. I think thats the best way, but HOW do I keep my cool in the meantime??

Coming from a Cancer here, we are masters of reverse psychology and manipulation and will use it if we have to. I know it sounds bad, but it's true. We are also very charming with our ways and will use humor to work things in as well as state blunt flaws about ourselves, kind of in a way of saying "This is me, take it or leave it" We're extremely shrewd and mindful of our dealings and will most likely think out every single word before we say it. We seem tough and collected on the outside but are extremely sensitive and somewhat insecure on the inside. Be careful of hurting us as we will go back into our shell and sulk for a while until we get enough affirmation to come out again. However we are EXTREMELY tenacious and will not give up on someone that we want. We will sink our claws in, plot and obsess over how to get what we want and most of the time we will get it. If someone isnt interested they have to spelll it out for us and tell us before we will stop pursuing lol. We are very ambitious in love and want it all, when we want it. However we are also a bit shy and will dance around a situation instead of addressing it straight up. We are walking contradictions in so many ways. I even annoy myself with my behavior! We are very very complicated and we make it more complicated for ourselves but not just being straight up about our feelings.

Aww Taurasgirl, my Scorpio keeps giving me the cold shoulder too. I've been stuck for weeks on what to do. Apparently there's a lot of Scorpio men giving women hell right now! Something is going on with the stars! Mine came after me full throttle, told me he'd never met anyone like me in his life, that I won him over, etc etc. I opened up and returned the feelings and he totally withdrew and has been withdrawn for weeks now. I'm so sad but I think we have to realize that this is their nature and not necessarily anything we've done. I've been doing my best to think positive and am using the Law of Attraction to keep myself on the right track. Your situation is quite different than mine as I havent even gotten a chance to get super close to him because he doesn't live by me. But the time we did spend together was amazing and then he goes off and it's like out of sight out of mind. I've been running around driving myself crazy on what to do. He has A LOT of emotional issues from previous relationships and from his mom, who is very mean to him. So hes fragile but at the same time pushes my love away. I don't understand. I just don't want to lose him as I feel he's my soulmate and i've never felt that in my life. He called me his bizarro twin because we just connected immediately. I don't get it, I wish I had more insight for you...a man's perspective would be helpful here! BTW I'm a cancer and suppose to be a perfect match for scorpio. HA, what a cruel joke.

P.S WOW the message board seems to have A LOT of inquiries about problems with Scorpio men lately! Maybe something is going with their sign...BTW, everytime I do a tarot reading I pull THE HERMIT for him LOL

Antares57 thank you so much! That was VERY helpful. Chevelleman, you as well! Up until today when I initiated contact AGAIN, we had zero contact for 6 days. I text him and said I was thinking about him and asked how he's been and he said "I'm good, just scrambling, have my charity event tonight" and I responded but didn't hear back from him. This seems to be his MO, he responds once or twice and then disappears. But then he'll call me like once every 2 weeks and we'll talk for like 2 hours, this is all after I'VE initiated most of the contact. I don't call him by the way, he calls me. He's been like this for like 3 weeks now. QUESTION: Why the hell would he call me for 2 hours and tell me all about everything if he didn't care? But then disappears! I don't know what to think! I'm SO confused. I'm afraid of addressing the issue because I dont want him to withdraw more. It's a crappy catch 22 and I'm so STUCK it's making me miserable..

antares57,

He is very sensitive and he has told me this. But he withdraws, then I Make contact and he responds immediately. The other day I text him, instead of just texting he CALLED and we talked for and hour and 45 mins. I don't think any man talks to anyone for that long unless he cares and wants it. But then we'll talk and he'll disappear again. We haven't talked since last Thurs, not even text and this bothers me. I don't want to have to initiate texts, though I did tell him that was tired of texting and my fingers were sore. He took it a little too literally and has hardly text me since I said that Dunno what to think. He definitely doesn't know how much I care about him and my advisor said I needed to tell him, preferably in person or I was going to lose him. He has previously been very vocal about his feelings, unfortunately I may have been the one who clammed up first when he tried to discuss the direction of what we were doing. NOw I'm just stuck and confused...I miss his frequent contact so much.