I agree with Dalia. Get counseling. I made the bad mistake of not doing it and listening to someone else and now I'm regretting it. We all have choices but think long and hard about what you decide. A wrong decision has a way of coming back and giving you 10 times more misery. Sometimes you think you are in a bad place but it will turn out that is a lot better than the place you want to go.
D
Hi Andrea,
I have several problems I'd like to ask you about. Would you do a reading for me?
I was a stay at home mom for 33years until I got a divorce 6 years ago. I met someone that I dearly love but he is so (not sure what word to use) Unpredictable is one and Mystery is another one. He has stuck by me several years and even came to visit twice from CA. (I'm on the east coast). We talked about all these plans and things we were going to do but these last couple of months he's drifted almost away. (We were pming 2 to 4 times a day and now it's a week to 2 weeks). I don't feel it's another woman but there is something going on and I'd like to know what it is. I've asked him what he does all this time and he says he's busy. I'm at a loss of what to do. He does owe me some money so maybe that is bothering him. The last time I talked to him he was really upset by the way his family had treated him. His dad is 91 so he takes care of him a lot and his aunt (they are both rich) but when his birthday came up they snubbed him. This is all really upsetting to me. I'm having to take care of my 85 yr old mother, plus try to make a little money, and am still after 6 years having to go to court about alimony (Was getting it through garnishment but he retired so it is being done all over). Take each seperate thing and it will be upsetting but all of it has overwhelmed me. If you can see anything happing good for a change that would be fantastic. I have a lot of esp with certain people (my bf for one) but this has been one I can't understand. If you have a facebook account where we could instant message that would be great. I'm trying to hang on but with all this combined, I feel like I'm at the end of the rope and it's slipping out of my fingers. Thank you for reading. I hope you will hit this right on and things can settle down.
DBJO