Thanks for the advice wndykaye and abetterplace. I can really use all the positive engery I can get. I'm just having a hard time with my ex because we have a daughter together so i have to deal with him. It is not easy because I love him but I know I'm not in love with him anymore and it's a fip flop game with him because I feel sorry for him. I do feel like he has remorse for hurting me and now he is hurting. He's pouring his heart out, crying an pleading for me to come back and it makes me feel bad to see him hurting like this. I hate to see anybody hurting and crying. If though he hurt me, my heart is breaking for him. Sometimes I give in and spend time with him which I know is not helping the situation but I have also told him to move on because I didn't know if I was ever coming back. Having trouble just getting past all of this.