I have been dating a Scorpio man for a couple of months now. It's going well. We see each other every two weeks when he is in town. Neither of us really wants to be a long-distance relationship, but it just happened. We met at the airport and connected. Now he is acting jealous if I don't respond to emails fast enough...I think he is feeling insecure. Last night he asked me if I love him. I think he loves me, but I don't want to jump in so fast. I agree that he likely needs to see something coming from me to make him believe that what we have is "real". I think it's real, but don't want to be using the "love" word so quickly. I have feelings for him, but there is so much more to learn about each other.
Barbara, I think you have to just jump in with two feet. Put your heart on the table. It's better to lead with your heart, than let fear be your guide. That's what I am going to do. What the heck! What's the worse that can happen? You get hurt. So what. Pick yourself up, dust yourself off, and......next!!!! We can not fear someone leaving us or a relationship ending. We have to give it or all or nothing at all.
Thank you ScorpWolf. Your comments have helped me to understand a bit better what my approach should be with my Scorpio man.