Dana, I am being guided to offer you the following messages: First, you are being asked to walk your talk and express things exactly as you see them. Express yourself with influence and tenacity. Speak up, confronting perceived wrongs with confidence and assuredness without being excessively rude. It is easy to feel intolerant toward those who choose to ignore your advice, especially when you know it to be wisdom gleaned over a lifetime of experience. Express yourself with influence, until the need arises to enforce your expectations more vehemently. Hope this helps. Blessings, ~Ahliyah