I met him we get on good.

I feel guilty feeling this way but i'm 37 and he 46, now he has no job, living in sheltered accomodation.. and because of bad health he has a scooter cause cant walk far.

No i'm not norm the shallow type, i took him around my town a bit i just felt i had to think of places where think of a scooter.. i just felt guily because i was thinking this long term is not what i want, but a bit of fun in which we have had, i dont want to be tied like that i have enough in my work. Yes i know it can happen to us..at anytime, also he got no home or money,

I feel bad in the sence i feel sorry for him, but he's already said about meeting on my weekend off, i feel he may depend on me too much.

The worst part for me was when i met him at the station, because the weather was the most worse some how i ended up having coffee in the diner where i did with my thought soulmate, then later on when considering where to eat angd get a scooter through, where do i go in the resturant/ pub, where me and my soulmate met, i felt tearful and just wanted to be home to myself,.

I waited with this guy for a hour till his train came cause i felt i ought. we had a bit of fun that all i fear he'll depend on me i dont want or need that.

Since then i've been so tired, this week till today, i'm not worring anymore, it's been a need to feel and have some sexual fun, i needed as i been on own too long, so now, i've cancelled subscpition on online dating..

I'm letting the Steves of this world go, and Rob too .

It my time to get out into the real world, but right now i need a lot of time for me, to let my inner self work my sharman, and forget the contraints of soley finding my shining armour lol..

I met him we get on good.

I feel guilty feeling this way but i'm 37 and he 46, now he has no job, living in sheltered accomodation.. and because of bad health he has a scooter cause cant walk far.

No i'm not norm the shallow type, i took him around my town a bit i just felt i had to think of places where think of a scooter.. i just felt guily because i was thinking this long term is not what i want, but a bit of fun in which we have had, i dont want to be tied like that i have enough in my work. Yes i know it can happen to us..at anytime, also he got no home or momey,

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hi laiel i would like your in put on my thread..aries 2 aries.

Right here goes, on monday, i very unexpectly recivied a valantine card from mr aries.

Yes i know it was from him because only my main family know my postcode, i know i've talked to other men on online dating and i'd never give that out till i me, and he gave all his first , i waited till i met him..

Why send a card? also as you know i sent a rose and a card.. since the weekend ive been getting annymous call, in the sece of one a day roughtl in same time period and my gut says it him, because i havent bothered to acknowledge the card and visa-versa.. yep the no=is not stored, shall i jusy blomin get it over and done with phone him say thanks, get on with my new date im meeting on monday?

what is the capability for these two.

Aries woman and Taurean man

I know now that my experience of feeling him next to me on the sofa, was at the same time he had a car accident, so weird he knocked out for a while..

I think that some soulmates , in my recent expericence are there to come into our live's to help us grow, in some way.

It hurts and is so confusing until you take a little time out to see everything for what it was and how it connects to what you need in order to grow.

I agree about the online dating and hiding behind texts, it weird cause there no face value, and we know the real way is on instant face and body laguge,. I now i need to be out in the real world, the life i want is out there, i need to find it..

Icearia.. Thankyou for your replie,

I have had just work and home for seven years, last year i joined a online date site, and that when i realised i need to change it all.. as they say out with the old and in with the new. I had a lot of trust issues, and putting people in the same basket, but in time i have rediscoverd the real me and have learnt to let my old wounds heal, as they tend to keep me back,. I know why i got so toughty feely so quick, i dont give that out easy and i felt the connection we clicked and as i said it been so long since i felt a man or had a kiss and a cuddle, that i new logically that you should be a bit hard to get, but my need to be felt and feel was so strong, i couldn't help it, it has built my self esteem up no end, but in a way i got burnt to , it is a lesson but i needed to go through it.

I know you have to take risks i had a complextion isue and since i met him he made me feel atrractive and wanted, so i needed that feeling of being sexy again.. its all been a long periond of re-learning and looking at every aspect of what i was and who i really am, i lost the real me somewhere ang=d you know the strange part the year is nearly up, i think im there.

You do have to take the risk cause if you dont you wont ever now.. i cant live with that so now it all a game, i know i will get a bit hurt , cry then pick me up again and carry on.

I have being looking into doing mediation and spiritually side of things, cause i feel that right for me..

The one thing is that by talking on here since friday you guys have helped a whole lot, ive learnt from you thanks. I had doubts, now i have promised my self to believe your first gut instinct regardleed of what others think..no more second guessing myself..