Hi Captain:

I've been reading many of the threads and I've noticed that you really offer sound advice as well as insight as you did with mine. However, I wish you could give me a bit more insight as I am honestly in shock that he still hasn't even bothered to contact me even after I attempted last week. Is he going to? or do you think he's just letting go? Sorry to bother you but I'd love if you could give me more info based on our bdays as you did with Hotvirgorising. My bday is Aug 9, 1978. His is June 24, 1979.

As I said in my previous post. We have been together for a year now. And we've had about 5 arguments in total which are mainly about the same thing... more quality time... as we are long distance. In the last one, I told him it's over and I hung up the phone. We ended up talking again and he told me he won't move forward anymore as he's done with feeling he's not adequate enough for me (which I never implied). I tried to be friends and it didn't work at all for him because he was so cold and he told me to take it or leave it so I told him I'd leave it. That was the last I heard from his end, except that I texted him to tell him I hope he feels better last week because he posted that he was sick on Facebook. All I got was a "thank you, I appreciate it" reply. I just don't see how he could go completely cold and unmoving over night. This really hurts and I really wish I had some clarity of the situation. How could he just forget about me so quickly?

That's great news babe. That gives me hope too. I hope mine comes back as well because I really miss him How did he come back? Can you tell me a bit more about your story?

Thanks you guys. I will definitly give it some time because that's probably the best thing for both of us. I was just scared he may forget me in time. But we'll see what's meant to be.

Saggielovesleo... your guy seems to love the drama! You need to literally put your foot down and not call him until he comes back begging. Think about what it is you deserve in a relationship and honestly see if you're getting that or not. Leos can be alot of fun and very comfortable but they need drama every once in a while and will take it from wherever they can get it. I really am not sure about leo men but i know with leo women, the second we really lose the person with us is when we fall madly in love with them as well. We drive them to the wall, they leave and then they become the loves of our lives It's pathetic I know!

Well pretty much sums up my sstory with the dramatics which he couldn't take at the end. I think these guys are very sensitive so dramatics to us are just to blow off some steam but they take them very very seriously. I'm honestly not sure what I can tell you. From what I know of my cancer, he always answers when I write him or call, so just give him time and he should respond unless he's still mad at you. Then you're gonna have to wait till he calms down. Good luck!

Honestly, leo's can really take it far when you spoil them. I think that's why my ex just couldn't do it anymore. I mean in my opinion i didn't shell it out that much. But he claims that i was constantly making him feel inadqueate, throwing him out the window and giving him guilt trips. Tell me a bit more about your story, and I'll give you my suggestion based on what I know about leos. But keep in mind, I'm giving you my perspective as a leo woman and I don't know much about leo men.

Well I made the attempt to reestablish contact again by msging him that I hope he gets better when he wrote "sick" on facebook. He wrote back... "Thanks, appreciate." I mean was the lack of ability to write an entire sentence that hard for him? Its things like this that really piss me off with him and cause me to throw my walls back up. I don't want to feel rejected by him!

Well I made the attempt to reestablish contact again by msging him that I hope he gets better when he wrote "sick" on facebook. He wrote back... "Thanks, appreciate." I mean was the lack of ability to write an entire sentence that hard for him? Its things like this that really piss me off with him and cause me to throw my walls back up. I don't want to feel rejected by him!

I was with a Virgo on and off for 5 years! Yes they are womanizers and it is very hard to get them to make a commitment. Although they are fantastic and fun to hang out with. I loved mine very much but couldn't wait any longer, finally after we broke up in 2 years he was like, OK let's get married. I was like WHAT! I'm in a relationship. I think they love the challenge. So what I can suggest is that you remain polite and sweet but don't make the effort, let them!

Hi... Thanks for your comment. I also wanted to drop something on your case as well. You know Sag & Leo get along very very well. I'm not sure very much about the Leo guy but I know if you give a Leo girl enough time, she will probably come back around because leo's are so full of love. Yeah we blow alot of hot air but its our pride that keeps us from coming back sooner than later. Leo will continue to see how far you will bend backwards because it makes them feel that you love them but stand up once and for all in their face and they will become weak crying for the way things were Hope that helps but its just some insight into most the leos I know

Thanks alot I really appreciate what you suggested but I'm scared now that its too late for me to suggest being friends again or even returning when he was clearly fed up the last time. So I guess I'm worried about getting rejected.

But I will find a way to get back in touch because I miss him