No, I think you should let that guy go, Please for your sanity. I'm a cancer but, generally I don't hurt someone unless, they hurt first If you know what I mean? I care for my friend who is a cancer and almost love him. I say I love him and he says he love me. But really can hurt me with his words and that is worse than physical stuff. Please that guy has other woman and it is not worth your time. You seem sweet and wonderful just be true to yourself and everything in your life will go smoothly I promise you all the feelings you had for him will go away and someone sweet as you will come your way when you least expect it.