I, too agreed to being friends. He had just came out of a long marriage, and i was only separated, so not in a position to dictate terms. After many years, i find myself in a place where i realize i love this man. the deal with men is this. once you are the friend, as in, lets just be friends, you will never be anything more than that. i know this, did it anyway, and cover my feelings when i see him with another. at one time he may have thought it could be love, and i didn't. maybe your timing will get better, or learn to accept the friends. after all, we gave them permission to be open.
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RE: I need Help fast! very hurtful relationship... =[