I'm a female GEM born on the cusp of Taurus/Gemini, May 21st.

I too have always kept better friendships w/men. Girls are too nosey, jeaous and backstabbing. Ridiculous. They love to see you down and fail, or have a hand with instigating such demises in the first place. So many are catty, coniving and immature. Ironic that a Gemini's "youthful playful" demeanor gets a bad wrap. But there's a big difference between being childish and childlike. And Gem's are rewardingly the latter.

As for female Gemini friends, we share an unspoken appreciation for oneanother. Immediately we knew we're safe with the other & so are our principles, secrets and values. Space is always granted and never questioned. Can go for years not keeping in touch and when one Gem reaches out to another there's no questions asked... we just know. It's cosmic. I baby-house-puppy sit whenever needed. It's like a private Gemini club. Neat.

As for May Gems' vs. June Gem's, I find myself naturally clicking with May Gems (both male & female) much better than the June's. Reason? don't know, but there's definitely a difference. My b-day calendar if full of May Gem's and the only June Gem's are relatives. That's gotta mean something too.

First boyfirend was a Gem 6 yrs older than me, born on May 27th and we lasted 3 years.

Overall, Gem's can have many social networks, but only the prized few are loyally secured in our hearts. My closest and dearest friends are Libra's, Leo's, Gemini's, Aries, Aquarians & Capricorns. (I have enough Scorpio's, Cancers and Picies in the family.)

Aslo, very true about Gem's seeing the best in others. I'm completely wired that way and yes, have been thrown under the bus plenty because of it. But it's in my positive nature to see & speak the truth and expect everyone else to do the same. Why wouldn't you?! I still shake my head at how shady & devious others can be... and on purpose nonetheless!! Shame on you. How cheap, how cowardly and rude. Why make life so complicated? Be simple, be honest and be real. Be your own Gem ; )