rdygreen

Thanks. This pretty much sums me up!! I am a GEM born June 13, 1964. I am about to divorce because of jealousy, insecurity and being accused of cheating (which I am not). I am a hair stylist and vey much people person. He is a Virgo!!! I was with a Cancer for almost 10 years before him. It was always interesting. He taught me how to ride a Haley. Somthing I had wanted to do all my life.

VENUS IN GEMINI

In love, you are more

interested in a person's sense of

humor and intelligence than in

their physique. You like a partner

who is mentally alive and who keeps

you guessing a little bit, and you

become restless and bored with

someone who never asks questions,

never changes or surprises you.

Talking, sharing ideas, going

places together, and learning new

things together is very important

to your happiness. You need lots of

social stimulation, are something

of a flirt, and like to have many

friends of both sexes. A

possessive, jealous partner is very

stifling for you.

VENUS IN 11TH HOUSE

You are a very sociable,

congenial person and you wilt very

quickly without the company of good

friends and people to share good

times with. You thoroughly enjoy

working with others on group

projects or community activities.

You are quite happy when you are a

part of a club, support group, or

team of some sort.

JUPITER IN GEMINI

You have the ability to see

connections between seemingly

unrelated ideas or worlds, and to

bring them together. You excel in

any field requiring clear

intellect, and verbal and

communication skills. You have an

insatiable curiosity and may read

or watch television constantly in

order to satisfy your need for

mental stimulation. Your mind never

stops.

JUPITER IN 11TH HOUSE

You have good fortune working

with groups, organizations, and

others who share your ideals. You

go further if you unite your

efforts with others, as in clubs,

networks, or civic associations.

Social improvement, or benefiting

your community is very important to

you.

GIVE HIM SPACE!!!! I am a Gem (female). I am currently in a marriage with a man that has NO LIFE!!!! (except me) Some would think this is great. It is suffocating!!! And nothing will make me want to run more is someone trying to keep tabs on me every minute of the day. I have been accused of cheating (which I have not). I am called toooo many times a day and demanded to call back. I can't even call him before his is calling me. When we met, he wanted committment right away. Before we were married, I had my own space. I feel now like I should have kept it. I am constantly being told that he needs me to make him feel loved, needs me to make him feel wanted, needs me to make him feel needed. This is alot to put on another person. I agee that what ever you are looking for in him, you need to look for in yourself. I also agree that Gem's are supper commited when they LOVE. Almost to a fault. I have been there too. Which is why I am where I am today. I am a very creative person and very spontanious. However, when someone demands that I do something, I will back the @@@@ off. It is like a bird in a cage. If it is messed with enough, it will starve itself enough to squeeze through the bars to get away. When my husband acts so desperate, I feel like I loose all respect for him. I have a 15 year old daughter that acts more mature than him at times. I feel like I have a boy, not a man!!! This may sound harsh, but I have been on the other side also. I totaly pushed my ex- husband (9 years he put up with me) away. It has take me several years to see this. It is a very ugly thing to see myself in the actions of my current husband. The one thing I do know is if there is no trust, there is NOTHING. I don't know if this helps but I hope so. My current situation is that my husband wants a divorce because he can't control me. HE is trying to control ME out of my life. LOVE YOURSELF!!!!!

I have recently been diagnosed with Fibro. The doctor thought I had MS. I had disc replacement between C-5&C6 last June. I have done much research since. My neurologist prescribed Lyrica and it seems to working well. Last August, I had to detox for 7 days from pain killers, muscle relaxers, Klonapin (a benzodiazapan) that stores in your fat cells and muscles. I have spent 8 months going through withdrawal symptoms. The symptoms come from not having an artificial pain reliever in my body. When you take these medicines for extended periods of time, your body stops making it's own natural pain killers. Hence you take the medicine away and the body has to re-calibrate ( make its own natural pain killers again). I suggest anyone reading this read benzo.org. Read the withdrawal symptoms, they are the same. I am also a recovering alcoholic and I NEVER experienced this from alcohol. Opiates and Benzos are HELL. I also take Cymbalta along with the Lyrica. Drink losts of water!!!! Diet drinks can also make it worse. (aspertame) My neurologist believes that it is a mind, body and spirit thing. They all must function as one. If my spirit is sick, my body is sick. I also suggest the book called "The Healing Journey of The Present Moment". How many moments do we spend in the future or the past, not just breathing in the "Present" moment?

I am also a hair stylist and I understand the "Well You Look So Good", but I feel like my body is falling apart. I have always been independent and a go getter. It is a journey, not the destination.

Much Love