04/21/1979. Thanks!

Casper, most scorpios I’ve known tend to be the non-forgiving and grudge holding type. Well, sometimes they forgive, but they never forget – which means in reality they never truly forgive they just let you think they did.

The sad part is, most disagreement are based on misunderstandings and not true antagonism. Scorpios tend to be unable to differentiate between the two.

Male Taurus/Aquarius/Aquarius here-

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In general, those with Taurus influence need constant reassurance that everything is “ok” and their love is/will be received equally. If they don’t have that absolute trust in the partner they will lock themselves away for fear of getting hurt. A Taurian who has gotten his feelings hurt in the past quickly learns to keep things inside until he’s good and ready, which can be a long, long time. Honest communication is the key to getting through to him, but in a way that doesn’t feel imposing – it’s a fine line you have to walk when coaxing the bull.

Also, the sun sign is only a fraction of a person’s essence. Along with other natal influences, external factors i.e., environment, social upbringing and the fact that he’s a man contribute greatly to the personality. My guess is that, assuming there are no other significant external negative factors and/or fears in your relationship, he’s probably as confused about as you are about him.

Hi –

Taurus man, April 21st, 1979. Aquarious Moon and Gemini rising.

The chances are, if your potential Taurus lover has given you some indications of affection, you probably already have his heart – but something is holding him back that is likely based on a level of mistrust, which is a danger to potential long term stability. Taurus often the like to portray the “silent hero protagonist” to hide hidden emotions that confuse the hell out of us. We’re not that articulate when it comes to expressing personal feelings, especially verbally, as it leads to vulnerability and instability. So don’t get us wrong, we have tons of emotion and sensuality, they just tend to get in the way of routine and stability resulting in much personal conflict. Once we go in, we go ALL IN emotionally in a relationship with the intentions of making that the new routine – so absolute trust in a partner is required before the commitment is made.

If you want to coax out that hidden emotion, take us somewhere private and relaxed. Going out in nature refills our gas tanks us and puts us at ease – an excellent place for you to connect with us. Quiet and intimate dinners are also a big plus. Not big fans of chaos, too much noise and crowds (organized crowds such as sporting events / concerts are ok – unorganized crowds such as night clubs / busy city streets are not). Doing little things for us, particularly if they’re traditionally based (e.g., washing our dishes without being asked) is a quick way to get our undivided attention.

We need constant reassurance so make sure you are incredibly clear about your feelings for them (but not overbearing, remember we need to think we are in control). A little pat on the head goes such a long way. Don’t be afraid to portray a certain sense of possessiveness or jealousy, I personally find that to be an attractive trait as it shows me that you deeply care, as destructive as it can be. We like to give and are incredibly generous, but don’t like to be pressured into it – it has to be on our own terms. Also don’t lie / be fake – we have a pretty good BS meter and will run like the wind if danger to our own security is sensed.

Loyalty wise, you’ll find no one more reliable. Once a choice of lover is made, our determined nature will make that the focus of our assuring stability. We won’t risk long term chaos / change for temporary pleasure. Never, it does not compute.

In the sack…well our natural traits of endurance, determination and attention tend to leave no one complaining.

So the key is to simply make it known to your man that you are willing to commit. Once you break through the rough and suspicious exterior, gain the trust of a Taurus, you’ll have a companion that will stand by you till the end.