hi all, how fantastic to see some old faces and some new ones , update, sadly my vir has been back and forth so many times ive lost count, but finally im seeing that light (took to flippen long) FINALLY.... why does that happen??? anyway what i do know is ive learnt more about my self in the last year and a half than ive learnt in my lifetime, even after my horrid ex husband, but i truly believe this experience was so much worse, crazy ae.....

anyway just wanted to drop a message to say hello and that i to think of this thread often... xx

holy moly shamboly..... whats going on with this thread???? goodness it was a god send for me, reading, typing away, observing, i feel a bit sad, this place truly helped the be jesus otta me.... rite to the point where i found true peace, please lets not let this place fade away xx

hey hey everyone, i know its a very late happy new year, but wishing you all a very awesome one....hope all you are well, happy and enjoyed some goodness over xmas (hoping santa was kind lol)did you all have good holidays?? this year our summer has been at its best hitting 30s and almost to hot to be outside, amazing, and i was loving it

anyway, sorry i havent dropped past but none of you were far from my thoughts, things sounded like they got a wee tad mad round dec on here

much love

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thanks guys, altho, no real emotion has been expressed from my lad as of yet, still claiming he is ok with it and lets face it maybe he is, i think his dad has moved maybe 8 times in 3 yrs so he really doesnt know much different than life at dads changes and life at mums does not, i guess im waiting for the emotional stuff to kick in, may not due to the circumstances of the last few yrs maybe it wont, fingers crossed, he knows inside his own mind and thoughts whats going on and i possibly dont give him enough credit, im to busy protecting him as any mother would.... its just hard, i wouldnt leave my child, ever! and find it hard to understand why his father would, have often thought of moving but me myself have always come to the result i could never take my son away from his father and here it is happening but the reverse.... finally after 7 yrs his dad is playing the card, im over the fighting, over the arguing and prepared to sit down and work things out re our son, but all it feels like is he is greasing and he has a sense of guilt.... im trying so hard to try and believe this isnt so but its very difficult.... i just need some time to let this new arrangement sink in but being told saturday and they leaving tomorrow has left a sour note in my mouth of selfishness.... i have had 4 days and they leave tomorrow, seems slightly selfish, im fully pissed off!! sorry guys, dont mean to rant but really its just crazy stuff!!

hi all, hope everyones doing ok, been a few busy weeks and have checked in, seems like the thread has slowed a little since the crazy madness a few good pages back.... things in my world have been nice and quiet apart from madness with the ex hubby (sag) seems he is taking off and moving town with his wife and kids, my son doesnt seemed to fazed but we will see next week when he has to say goodbye, feeling a wee bit emotional about it actually, im not even sure why, but things will fall into place im sure, ive certainly had to put up with worse from my ex so a little part of me is glad to see the back of him, 7 yrs of him bullying, threats, harsh words just to name a few and hopefully with him in another town this will come to an end, but a little part of me is sad for my son, how can his father just up and leave him.... anyone got any advice to share??

wow gem4ever, i love that your cap has been so up front, its refreshing and up beat! nothing better than knowing where you stand and what the expectations are, no confusion there at all, wishing some goodness with your cap, sounds really exciting

oh god, i didnt know about this terrible storm,choose not to read or watch news, plz keep safe, thinking of everyone near, far and in between xx

as for all the maddness in here right now, feeling a wee bit disappointed and sad as to how its turned so quickly, i had to go back and re read what i had posted about ss as i remember doing so regarding guyfriend posting something, if your reading ss, guyfriend didnt get a virgo onboard, i told you not to get so aggro followed by we are all here to support, anyway, much love to all in here, i know i feel very thankful today

oh guyfriend your so much like me, only difference i dont have the balls to say so..... go you!!!! hey ladies, its been a wee while since i reared my head, i have been keeping up when i can and your not far from my thoughts xx....your all frotten amazing people!!!and even tho many of us have moved past our vir men we still check in to keep in touch with new ppl having issues....ss stop with the personal attacks, if you look back you were happy to take advice but the sweet sniff at anyone not agreeing with you your all over it.... no one here is against you at all, please take what you wish from what any of us say, but most of all think about yourself, remember we all have been there so we are beside you as you go thro the crap!! peace honey xx

judyheart.... not every virgo person falls into your discription of Virgo people have this need to succeed in life and have really perfect lives. They are fortunately given all the equipments to achieve this divine purpose given to them from birth; they are given intelligence, and tenacity, and relentless drive and ambition, so naturally when they dont misuse any of this; the natural result is career and financial success. but not all of them follow this path. some get diverted growing up and somehow manage to mess up their lives; they lose their dreams and end up as nothing.

i myself came here due to a complete a!shole of a virgo male, i myself am a virgo woman, yes i can try to be perfect if i choose to be, but hell i'll be waiting a while, i also work but for balance only, i could be a single parent working 6 days a week, but i find that balance has grounded me, given me truth in how life is ment to be lived and im happy, us virgo woman have all the makings and thoughts of a virgo male but there is one thing i know, we never act on them, im simply not stupid enough and there is the difference, im not stupid!!! and ss dump the new vir heal yourself, get strong, you have slight brain wash from a man who has been a control freak, the only way is to go it alone, with good support of course, move forward and realise not all men are that way (vir way of course) stop trying to replace what you just lost because you will not be satisfied, ok rant done, feeling ever so slightly better now

hey girl and guys, jen i love your comment "i was just a bystander" in a way we all are in what ever we do, and the positive is you started this forum and have made many friends, that alone is why it was good thing mr virg came into your life....for the one terrible thing that came into your life and changed you, you got many awesome blessings, beautiful thing really as for facebook, loving on that place at mo, would be great to look you up on there