In my family bad things happen on all the holidays and birthdays. We have to look past them and see the good in all the holidays and special moments in our lives. Your not evil if god still answers your prayers. What ever God you beleive in. Don't forget the Goddesses.

I"m thankfull for the air I can breath. I was recently told I have asthma. Just a day where I breath good is a good day and want to tell people that they shouldn't take their breathing for granted.