Taurus Guy here and I say yes patience does pay off eventually. We Bulls love to drag our feet and become very routine like. Its just a line that you need to make sure you don’t cross over and go from him being patient to you allowing him to treat you like a pushover.

Tell this man how you feel, and what it is that you want. If he does want to be with you then he will tell you, if he doesn’t then I would move on or continue to be his friend.

But yes patience does pay off with us in the long run. In fact patience in the beginning of the relationship speaks VOLUMES to us because then we know that you’re not looking for a temporary high, but you actually want to be with us for the long run.

earthangel2 --- I dont think its right for you to try and make MascCancer feel bad. I think what your doing is taking your own issues with your Cancer and placing it on him. If you have a problem with your cancer then start a new form and air your grievance but its not fare for you to base on every cancer you see because your hurting.

I honestly think you own him an apology.

My Ex (a Libra) sent me a text message saying happy birthday to me last week. It was quite shocking actually because we haven’t spoken since Christmas time. But even at Christmas and New Year’s he still reached out to me to send me well wishes. This in a way just showed me that he was at least being civial about the matter.

No one is saying not to EVER talk to him. If by chance something would happen to where you felt he needed you there for support (death in the family, loss of job, or general bad news) I would say go. What I suggested is that you cut communication with him to kind of drawn him in his own emotions, realizations, and fears. And so he can see what the REALITY around what he choose to do is. Plus this will allow you to work on you and help you correct your faults (as well as he can).

I think you saying happy birthday is a sweet jester. You can say happy birthday and still hold your ground when it comes to keeping him at arm’s length. A text message or a birthday card sent in the mail to me would be the best way of doing this. I wouldn’t call…but that’s me.

I'm done with my Cancer friends...finally starting to see that its not going ANYWHERE.

He just doesnt seem like he has any time for me and I have feeling like I'm on the back burner.

Plus...I just watched the movie "He's just not that into you".

Proud of you buddy!!!

See that’s good!! Take your love back!! Listen to some good music. Missy Elliot "Teary Eyed" was the one song that got me through, cause it give you enough anger and pain and it just resonates.

TNT...why not just say that?

So MascCancer....I have a question.

When it comes to my Cancer friend how should I address him if I have a problem? Right now I have come to the conclusion that he only texts me when he's Busy, Bored, or Tired and it drives me crazy. I want to tell him but I dont want to come off as crazy or being pushy. He tried talking to me last night but I ignored him.

Do you think I should keep ignoring him, or wait a while and then let him know whats going on with me and how I feel? Or just come right out and tell him?

I am so sorry you’re going through this.

I heard that Cancers are very bad at that. They give people little "test" and then get really upset when you don’t meet their expectation’s. Which is totally not fare.

I don’t know what to tell you to do dude. I dont know much about cancers only the things I've read in this form. But I think its for sure that you need some time to heal. I know how us Taurus get with break ups. We go through every conversation with a fine tooth comb and try and decipher some hidden motive behind how where feeling. We are very much "cause and effect" type people.

I think your girl I just rebelling, and it sucks that she is doing it on your emotional account.

I really hope a cancer female answers your question. Or at lest my boy CancerTeen (why cant this website have an instant message feature) CancerTeen is really good about breaking down what your girl/guy was thinking.

It would be silly to think she got upset because you didn’t pop the question.

I think her sister had something to do with that. She is pretty young so many she wants to be "Free" but I think if you give her time she will come to realize that she had everything she wanted in you and she let it go.

Are you willing to wait on this girl?