Posts made by ConfusedbyaCancer

Calling all canerians and people who understand cancerians. Please help me out and give me some feedback on weather this cancer man I care for will come back? Thanks!

Anyone out there, please help with my post and let me know your thought. I would really appricate it. Thanks!!!!!

so the final curtain has come down. He appeared again and said he was out of touch because he was out of country. I confess to him that i have a crush on him and that I think he doesn't feel the same. He says you got it so I tell him that for sake we need to stop talking and thank him for being a good friend he say good luck and bye. Any ideas if this is really good bye or if he will come back?? Please help and give you thoughts please1 Thanks!

So things were going great, and all of a sudden he disappered on me again. I left him a message one day to see how he was doing and next day to see if he was o.k. no response... so its been over a week now and I have not contaced him and I have not heard anything back from him in over two weeks. Please help...will he come back and does he need space... or is this something more??? We had no fight and nothing I can recall that may have hurt his feeling.. not sure what the heck happened. Feed back from cancerians would be appriciated!!!

Hey everyone, I am back. so last I told you all we were talking and things were going great!

Infact he even made plans to come visit me during holiday and now all of a sudden he has stopped calling for returning my calls. I left him a message that I was just calling to see if everything was o.k. but wont' be calling him back any more just in case he needs some personal space. Still no message or call. Please help!!!!!!!!!!!

We have had no arguments or fights and nothing out of the ordinary that I could think of that would have offended him. Any thoughts or insights would be appriciated. Thanks a lot in advance!!!!!!!!

Ok folks so my cancer and I are talking again. I am keeping my fingers crossed this time. after going back and forth and playing minds games I finally broke down and told him right out that I like him and after that he said all was cool and started to talk to me. Now we even talk on the phone but I still don't have his number. Any hope for me folks. Help a confused girl out. Thanks!

So now its 45 days and neither one of us has sent a message to each other. IS IT REALLY OVER...SOMEONE PLEASE give me an insight into my crab. Thanks!

23 days and still nothing. Should I have any hope with this Cancer???

Yes we are in different states but no i don't see him just anytime. I see him on and off at differnt times.

Sandran712 @ Yes I am seeing him on line.

15 days no contact!! Even though this cancer has major ego, you guys still think he can turn up??

so finally he talked to me...we went back and forth about who did what and in the end he said we are both adults and i could have ignored you but i wanted to let you know that I will not be talking to you again from this day going forward. we both wished each other good luck and said our byes. Looks like he has closed the chapter and will not be looking back at me again. Feel very said. Please let me know if and when a cancer say bye does he really mean it??? Thanks!

Ok. so after 12 days of silence I broke down and when I saw him online said happy new year to him and there was more silence. So I said don't pout and I did explain y i said you what i did and I have also apploigized. Still more silence. This is killing me. IS IT OVER?? HE WAS DISHONEST AND IF I CALLED HIM ON IT, I DON'T THINK I DID ANYTHING WRONG. So why is he acting like I am the one who did something wrong................Help me understand please!!!!!!!!!!!

Sandra712: Actually he has been online and I am the one who has not made myself visiable. For some reason I am nervous about what will happen if I appear :(. Thanks for your advise!

5 days and no communication.. i guess it over for sure this time. Happy new year everyone!

Thanks Sandran712: after my earlier conversation he did come back and said what were you saying again and when i repeated the face book story he said he doesn't take face book seriously and he does have a fake id there. He also said he is not dishonest and i have no right to call me that and he does not have to explain himself to me. He knows who he is and he has never played me or disrespect in anyway. That should have told me about his charchter. After that I told him that I am sorry but i was so shocked by what i saw and i didn't know what else to say. He left after that without saying bye or anything. I don't know what the heck is going on and what to do next. Please advice. Thanks!

Here we go gain..this time it didn't even last a couple weeks. So this is what happened. I went to face book and tired to add him as a friend and found him under a different name. sent him a message saying need to talk to him when he comes online next. He send me a message back saying he wont be online next till next march. I get mad and send him another message saying i found him under this name and what is going on and he calls me messed up and says bye. I think its over.. would u guys agree. Please let me know your thoughts. Thanks!

Keldjoran:

Do you think my cancer is interested in me as more than a friend?? Thanks!

I also want to thank everyone for their support and wish them a happy and safe holiday season.

So does this look like he is interested in me as a friend or mabye a potential?? Thanks!