I am very confused. I've tried several readings on site & don't understand the cards. I have been in a relationship for almost 3 years (may 5 annv). In October he broke things off & I found out he was seeing someone at work who reports to him. He says he loves me and that he is mo longer seeing her but is very unhappy in his life & can see now that he is not in a position to be with anyone. He says he needs time to figure things out & get his confidence back. I am having much giving him his space because I think he is still involved. Every weekend is torture. We still see each other but it mostly of my doing. We talk almost daily but it is mostly fighting or looking for reassurance which I know only pushes him away. It is very hard because we both agree that we are very connected & thought we were truly soulmates. Years ago a physic told me I would meet a "dark" man & he would be the love of my life. Are we going to be together? Does he really love me? Is he in love with someone else? If we are not to be how do I let go of him? I am upset & insecure all the time. My birthday is 2/5/71 & his is 12/20/68. Please give me some much needed guidance. Thi is affecting all areas of my life & his. I don't know what to do.