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nd his wife after talking about divorce theyboth agreed that neither loved the other as a husband and wife should. They lived in Houston at the time and he brought her back to Lafayette to her parents in the early part of July and he moved back to Alabama on August 20th,. He knew he had to have surgery so he went to his parents and iscurrently looking for a job since he's been released to go back to work. He arrived in Alabama on Friday August 20th and she showed up on the following Friday to watch their son who is high school there to playfootball one night with her parents. While at the game an argument started and they ended up leaving her there in Alabama at the game with him and her in laws and said she was a burden and went back to Lafayette.
So long story short he was unable to leave her on the street so there she sits. He has made her get a job, etc. No one wants her there
I've written him several letters and still speak to his mom on a weekly basis. Everyone is upset over her being there.
His Mom keeps asking me to please wait she thinks as soon as he gets a job hes bringing her back to Lafayette.
We had made plans to marry and move to Alabama and everyone knew about me.
I've had four conversations with him since she arrived.
The 1st time he said he did'nt know anything when I asked him if he still loved me
2nd time was its over, its has to be now
3rd time yes
4th time I don't know was his reply but he misses me.
I guess what I'm asking can you please help me with this.
I've only seen him 3 times since we started talking again in march.
He called me everyday all day and stay on the phone with me for hours.
He just kept saying he's doing me a huge favor and that hes sorry he never planned on things turning out like this and never planned on having Paula (wife) dumped in his lap.
He told me he lost me 33 years ago when we dated in High School and he went off to Germany to the Army.
Is he lying to me and always has been, does he think he's doing me a favor by ending it since he always said he did'nt deserve me and that
he does'nt think he can take care on me financially like he should but he still does love me?
Is he in love with Paula still and maybe did'nt realize it until she came to Alabama or does he love me and I will end up with him?
ANY help you could give me I would appreciate its been almost 2 months since I've "REALLY" talked to him and I'm not handling this any better.
Thank you so much