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    • RE: My Experiences with the Cancer Crab...

      I have been with a cancer man for 1 year and it was the worst relationship of my life by far!!! I am a gemini and before I met him, I was a very detached person and unemotional and not very sensitive. He really changed me and brought the sensitive side out of me. Everything was so good at the beginning. He did things for me no one else has ever done. He brought me gifts everytime he came to see me. He was very affectionate even in public. He was very creative and fun to be with, and he wasn't bad to look at either.

      After a few months I started to see his true colors. it started out with the mood swings. He would start a fight over me leaving a pair of worn socks in my kitchen floor in my own apartment. And then over the fact that I eat meat. He doesn't eat meat and the first night I met him, I asked if he would date someone who does and he said no, but then he asked me out, makes sense right? And then it was the ignoring and pushing me away by telling me he was seeing other people, but came to see me every weekend and still sleep with me. By this time I was hooked. I wanted to show him that I could be patient, loyal and loving so I chose to put up with more bs than I should have. Then the lies started. I'm a very intelligent person and can tell when someone is lying. I figured out he lied to me about many things, to this day I still know very little about him, I don't even know how old he is. He refuses to tell me.

      After about 5 months with him things seemed to get worst and worst. We fought every week there was a new fight. He refused to answer any of my questions, but asked me questions and expected answers. I put up with him because I was used to it. I would complain to other people and no one would understand or sympathize. I was miserable, but I wasn't strong enough to leave.

      When he told me he had slept with other people and hit on other people in front of me, I reached my boiling point. he still slept with me and told me he liked me and couldn't understand why i hated him so much. Yes, I started to hate this person for all he was doing to me. He knew that he was torturing me, but wouldn't let me go. I tried to ignored him, but he kept harassing me. I tried to leave him the last 8 months of the relationship.

      He finally met someone else and is giving that person more than he gave to me. The last time we had s.e.x. I asked him if he was seeing anyone else. Then I found out he was in a relationship and in love with the other person, but I didn't get any of that info through his mouth. I told him to leave me alone for good or I would tell the person he's with that he slept with me. He finally left me alone and we haven't talked since.

      It's been 3 months and I'm still hurting so much. I have cried so much within this year. I actually thought it was real and I wanted to believe so bad that it wasn't all just a lie. To this day I still don't understand why I still think about someone that I hated so much and did me so wrong. I did nothing but tried my best to love him and he tried his best to torture me.

      Reading some of the posts here really helped me feel peaceful. I know that one day he will feel what I feel. He kept telling me that he did nothing wrong to me and that I felt hurt cause I chose to feel that way. I really hope one day he will get what he did to me, good or bad. I am scared for life and my wounds will never heal.

      When I see people with relationship questions with cancer men, I was there. I made post asking questions about them here 8 months ago. Now it's a different story. I wished i should have run as far away from him as I could. He is the only person in my life that I regret meeting, and I've met lots of jerks, but non of them compare to him. He was the sweetest devil in disguise. I will never open up to another cancer man EVER again!!! I know another cancer and he is the exact same way, but we are just friends. Liar and a cheater. I'm only speaking from experience. When astrology said that cancer men are romantic, sensitive, loyal, creative, it forgot to mention that they are also liars, cheaters, super possessive, self absorbing, games playing, and immature!

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    • RE: Advices from male cancers?

      harriai1: It seemed that I haven't logged into this site for almost a year. I wished I saw your post months ago and all the warnings. After a year of being with him, I can say that it was the worst and most painful relationship I've ever experienced. It was everything, from going in circles, playing games, super possessive, moody, ignoring, clingy, lying, and now he left me for someone else. I have been so stressed out by him that I couldn't sleep, function or be happy. I was miserable, always angry. he liked to ignored me and make me jealous. I couldn't understand why he was so cruel. It's over now and we haven't talked for almost 3 months, but his memories still haunts me today. I had 2 dreams about him 2 nights ago in a row. Everything reminds me of him and I would cry whenever I feel weak.

      I wasn't this way before I met him. I am a gemini and I don't feel much, but ever since I met him, I have become sensitive and emotional. I wish I could go back to being the hardcore, non caring person I used to be lol. I don't understand why is it that this person is out of my life and I seriously hate him so much for what he has put me through, why can't I let go still? logging into this site a year later and reading all this really helps me deal with it now. It's funny that all the questions I had 8 months ago are clear to me now. I will never open my heart to another cancer. When people tell me to run as fast as I can from cancers, I didn't understand why because they seemed so sweet and romantic, but I totally get it now. They are the worst in my experience by far!!!!

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    • RE: Hanswolfgang....after long

      Hanswolfgang, I'm not sure who you are but if you're a psychic then I really need your help. I've been with a guy for 5 months now. Me - 5-26-1984 Him - 7-19-1967. Do you see us being together? and insights? what is he all about?

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    • RE: Thecaptain please help...

      Hi TheCaptain. I've made a terrible mistake. His birthday is 7-19-1967... Does that change anything? can you see for that day?

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    • RE: Advices from male cancers?

      DeeDee1970... It's comforting to know someone feels the same way I've been feeling. He pushes me to my limits and when I say ok lets move on. He would try to talk to me and do nice things. I have been on that emotional roller coaster and sometimes I feel overwhelmed. I am trying to stick it out and be strong. I hope everything goes well for you and that you find happiness.

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    • RE: Advices from male cancers?

      Sunbuddy... Thanks I will try to look up his chart when I have some time. He does do the retreat into his shell thing, but it's just for a couple of days, so it's not that bad. I just can't stand it cause he doesn't open up, he doesn't like me asking many questions. How am I suppossed to get to know him? Plus I don't know what he is doing when I don't hear from him. I am trying to be more patient and understanding and loyal, but I also have my limits. Well we'll see what hapens...

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    • RE: Thecaptain please help...

      Hi TheCaptain. I'm starting to think that he put a spell on me cause I don't know what is this hold he has on me. Do you know there is a counter spell for me to fall out of love???

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    • RE: Advices from male cancers?

      AquaBubbles. Thanks for taking the time from your life to read my story and for your reply. Well we are still communicating and he still avoid me from time to time. He doesn't really answer my calls for like a couple of hours. We mostly text. To me it's kind of going nowhere, but when I text him saying to completely cut off communication, he would try to hold on. I don't really know what he wants with me anymore. Sometimes I feel like this is stressful for me, but deep down inside I don't really have the heart or is ready to completely let go. A part of me still is hopeful for us to be together one day. I guess I will keep being hopeful since that's all I can do. Thanks again for your advices.

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    • RE: Advices from male cancers?

      AquaBubbles. Thanks for taking the time from your life to read my story and for your reply. Well we are still communicating and he still avoid me from time to time. He doesn't really answer my calls for like a couple of hours. We mostly text. To me it's kind of going nowhere, but when I text him saying to completely cut off communication, he would try to hold on. I don't really know what he wants with me anymore. Sometimes I feel like this is stressful for me, but deep down inside I don't really have the heart or is ready to completely let go. A part of me still is hopeful for us to be together one day. I guess I will keep being hopeful since that's all I can do. Thanks again for your advices.

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    • RE: Advices from male cancers?

      Will no one help me out?

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