Makes sense, I remember doing that myself.

Interesting thoughts. I don't expect anything from him if I just look at stuff the way I normally do and that as as a giver not a take but of course it would be nice to be really loved. Everyone in my life that has promised to love me unconditionally from parents, to spouses or friends has always left me in some form of way. I give and I give and do my best but it falls flat. I've been working on learning that honesty and love for myself and God is the thing that matters most. I can encourage any body to do it, but sometimes it's hard to accept my own words.

I guess what I'm saying is maybe we are both right in this situation. I know how I feel but yet everyone is always a work in progress until the day they die.

If you don't mind me asking I haven't heard anything from him in a few days since he said he'd get back to me any thoughts?

I'm not looking to take advantage of anyone. I'm not like that all, I have better things to do with my life. Just thought if me talking to him about my misfortune in life could help him out it would be worth my time and maybe bring him some peace about his situation!

That is part of my life mission to share with others the stuff I've been thru so that they may be inspired in some way. I feel like everything that I've ever been thru in my life was worth going thru if I can use my life story to help someone out. I spent hours on the phone last night doing that with my cousin and I went to bed peaceful feeling like I'd let someone know they are not the only person in life thats ever been thru the situation and that they will make it too!

BTW...............I feel the best I've ever felt about myself at this time in my life. I've accomplished a lot and I know that. I don't need or require anyone to make me feel good about myself.

Thanks again

Thanks for the insite.

I've been thinking maybe I will be around him to help him grieve and go on concerning his pending divorce. He was married three years, had a son last year and separated about 7 months ago. I am figuring since I went thru a separation/divorce that maybe that is why I will be in his life basically as someone he can talk to and trust as well as maybe help him get his "feet wet" before he starts over with his new life dating strangers.

Could I be correct there?

I guess the benefit on my side is to at least have someone younger then me attracted to me so maybe I won't feel so bad about myself either after the way my ex left!?!?

I'm a thinker sorry!! lol

More then words can say Thanks again Captain!

Back some time ago both you and Shubby told me I would meet a guy that would be jolly or possibly be met in December and that he would possibly also have a J in his name.

I was recently reunited with a friend of my from years ago thru email and we have talked a few times since. He has asked me to go out with him and I was just wondering is this the person you two told me about before?

I started talking to him in December and even though he goes by his middle name his first name starts with a J. I think we would be a good match for each other!

Just wondering if this is him!? Me and him used to be really good friends didn't talk for years but all of a sudden he comes back around and my heart is wondering is he the one? And how does he feel about me? Is he wanting a possibly relationship with me?

I really excited to say the least but don't want to make a fool out of myself either!!

Thanks!

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Happy New Year!

Recently made contact with a friend of mine I haven't seen in years thru email and I am just wondering if a relationship could form from this situation?

We met each other years ago when his grandmother purchased a car from my then husband. After that we all became friends and he & I would even go shopping or when he needed advice on moving, jobs, etc he would call me. We actually had a small business together for a while as well.

Now I'm divorced and he is now separated from his wife. He is younger then me. I am trying to remember by how much. Dark haired, nice looking, funny and is well-off financially. I know his birthday is August 24th.

At any rate he sent me an email today and suggested a dinner date and I am just wondering how this is going to work out? I of course accepted as it would be great to see him again but just wondering of course is there any romantic potential?

Good possibility you are right there. We had another round and the boss called him and said enough, I let the boss know I was sick of it and the guy as well. Hopefully for now some form of peace is present!

Not sure if I'll ever get a company car but I no longer have my van. Went looking today as I am car less and my mom took me to look at a cranberry colored car. Wondering if this is the right "red" car or if I need to wait it out. Not sure if I wait it out how long it will be or what but I have to do something like NOW!

Thanks!

He has really made a happy week for me ANNOYING!

He refuses to listen to anything or cooperate with me. I think he thinks that he is the owners right hand man and just will never accept the position I have been put in will be over his head as in essence my eventual job will put me over him. Not to mention he is 13 years younger then me!!

Funny I picked up on that "superior" attitude of his. I don't think its appreciated by a lot of people. What gets me is he is going to college and its not like he is making plans to be with this company for life like I am. Of course I reminded the owner of this the other day. I had him call this guy and tell him to back off his behavior was unacceptable, and he couldn't even apologize when he called. He is on an ego trip of superiority thats all I get. Your right there is no pleasing him, but I keep thinking it is not my job to please him only the owners, bug off is what I want to tell him.

My biggest fear is he is going to undo the owners decision of promoting me by making me look inferior because he thinks he knows it all! I am trying to work together with him in this situation but he seems to pardon me just be an annoying brat!! GAH! He keeps on trying to "take over" my new position in a round about way. The thing that freaks me out is he records every moment I am in the store and I feel like he is "stalking" me and can then say whatever he chooses to the owner and I will be "framed" for nothing.

Is this his mission? And is he going to pull the wool over my owner's eyes and me loose what I've worked so hard for? I can only think positive and trust the owner in his decisions. It is hard for me to trust anyone so this is a big problem.

I'm sorry for bothering you. I'm a pretty worked up over this whole situation, but I am sure you can probably sense that one!

Seem to have some drama in this situation!

Trying to figure out if the guy that operates are camera system in all the stores is mad because I got the promotion? I can't figure out if he wanted the promotion or if he is per say keeping tabs on me for other reasons. Other reason I can think of is to tell the owner what I am doing so he made the right decision? This is confusing me, but this guy is really TICKING me off! He has made the last week of my life that was supposed to be happy confusing & annoying!

Got any idea of what he is thinking? Maybe I am over reacting or maybe he is jealous. I've had a lot of things like that happen in my life, people get jealous, I advance and they want what I have so they make my life miserable! Never have understood this I mean really people be happy for someone and let me have my own life!

What I don't understand with him is he is going to school for medical so why is he worried that I seem to have "taken" a job that I think he feels was meant for him?

He has continually taped me and my staff now for over a month, calls me and embarrasses me in front of my staff and once I told him the other day that I was doing my job and needed his information he basically refused to give it to me!

GRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRR!!!

Help please!!

Thank you!