I would try the non-contact rule..... don't contact him for 3 weeks in any way shape or form, then after 3 weeks drop him a friendly light-hearted email/text/letter (whatever you do) and suggest meeting up for a coffee or something. Don't make it sound like you are asking him out on a date just something like, do you fancy grabbing a coffee sometime?

Hi TheCaptain thank you for the reading... very insightful, although this is not me and my husband (although he is a Capricorn too) this is a friend from the past.... Thank you again.

Ooomph just signed up to the narcissistic abuse recovery programme. Is this the right time for me to be making these changes? I am a Saggie.. probably the worst sign to be in a controlling relationship.

Hi TheCaptain, I know you have helped me greatly in the past and again more recently but can I ask for a compatibility reading?

Me - 29/11/1979

Him - 26/12/1983

Thank you x

Thanks TheCaptain!

My DOB 29th November 1979, his DOB 26th December 1983

Thank you The Captain, you are a such a kind soul.

Thank you TheCaptain, I asked him about marriage counselling, we went for one session, he didn't want to go again. he says that he is going to try and change but I just feel we are going around and around... I am in the same place as I was last year.

Hi, please can someone help me with my relationship problem?? I asked for help before but now I am in even more trouble... I am still not sure if my marriage is right for me? I think that my husband tries to control me and it is making me behave out of control as I try to fight against it. Can someone do a reading for me and tell me if my marriage is healthy or not?

Fantastic post The Captian x