Hello gnjilishepard, I am intentionally not reading everyone's replies so my own response won't be influenced. I'm a Taurus/Aries cusp woman and can relate to what you're describing about your girlfriend. I know that when I start behaving like that it's because I'm struggling with something and trying to "sort it out" in my mind and anyone pressuring me becomes a distraction that causes me to withdraw. I can't speak for your girlfriend of course, but I know that I am a very loyal and faithful woman and the one and only time I ever found myself torn between my feelings for two men, I was not intimate with either one of them while I was "figuring out what's what". Intimacy would have just confused matters more. I needed to get my head straight about what I wanted before I could be intimate with anyone at all. So if she's anything like me, I'd suggest just being patient and let her "sort it out". Being on facebook after she told you she was going to bed may have just been her "searching for answers to help her figure things out" and not telling you is just avoiding the influence of a confrontation. She may communicate with this other guy, but that doesn't automatically translate to "cheating". If she's like me, she's being "honorable" in her own way and trying to get her facts straight in the fairest way possible. You would not want her with you if she has an "unanswered question" in her mind about this other guy. Rest assured, she will give 100% to the one she chooses and you would not want it any other way because a Taurus/Aries cusp woman who isn't SURE about what she's doing can be very much the "Bull in the China shop"! Better to "just keep being you" and let her figure it out for herself. If you become clingy and demanding, you will only push her away.
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