Wow..thank you so much Cris1962, you hit the nail on the head regarding our "closets". One step back for two step foward , I hope. Hurts to think about it because we do love each other, but I see clearly what you are saying. Can you see the seperation being a long one? Months..Years? I also wanted to ask if you see my impending relocation being a smart choice? Have not totally commited yet, but very close and looking foward to a better quality of life. Thank you so very VERY much!!