I am told by those close to me (and lately seeing it for myself) that I do tend to help anyone, I am the person to come to if you need a place to crash, a meal, a couple bucks, a shoulder to cry on, but I have a very hard time trusting anyone to be there for ME. I am involved now with a very loving, genuine, generous Pices man who gets a bit upset with me b/c I don't want to give up any of my independence, and b/c he says he can sense that I don't completely trust him.... I don't... I don't trust anyone completely. And, I don't see how it's that big of deal. Honestly, I feel that it's the right thing.