Posts made by Christmascap

HI I am new to this- but when I saw your heading I felt I just had to reply- I have had several really "tumultuous" long term relationships- one with a Leo, one with a Gemini-but have been married to a Scorpio for almost 20 years- have definitely been up and down- but we learned together to get over our own insecurities and to learn to take a breath before we get angry- my biggest problem is my temper!-sometimes I even take a walk or go exercise or something and table our discussions until I am more calm-has helped - we also try to look at the positive things about each other and not jump to conclusions without proof- Over the years I have learned to give my Scorpio enough room to breathe-and he has become one of the most loyal and loving men i have ever met- but also I try to remember to show him how much I love about him when we are together- and to trust - the worst thing for my Scorpio is when I don't trust his integrity- as he has said many times- "If you give me the name, that is what I will become"