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What this reading is all about is getting news that may be unwelcome to you. You are fearing the inevitable. Let things work themselves out. View the situation in a different light. I'm getting that you're feeling weight of decision and this will be a good test of your strength, getting to know who you really are. Showing that talents got your husband this job and is able to create a friendly trust in those around him. This reading is speaking to believing in yourself. You have an ability to control your environment and make a good thing out of this. I'm also getting not to be too hasty or valiant in this, don't do everything your way. Take a wait and see approach knowing that this can and will work to your favor. You must really love your husband. I drew the 2 of cups next to the lovers. This is a strong connection and I believe the two of you can work this out--no problems. Somewhere in this reading I got the feeling of doing everything rogue like conquering the wilderness--is that your husband. I think this will workout for you. Above--knight of swords present--wheel of fortune below--2 of rods situation--Fool challenges--8 of cups--challenge is leaving your comforts future--strength blocks--7 of swords allies--2 of cups advice--lovers outcome--hanged man reversed Hope this helps

Hi Shuabby, Sorry to get in this thread. Hope you can answer my question please. Will Elinor(aries) and husband Marks (leo) marriage break-up? This is just for my informaton. I'm not going to tell anyone about it. Thank you so much & Blessings to you

Hi Watergirl18 Could i have a reading please. in regards of my love life. pretty please?

Hello, I read the post about the missing girl and here is what I feel. She purposely left behind her cell device because she did not want to be tracked. She erased text and calls so that no one could track her quickly. She did however leave the device knowing that thanks to modern technology the information could be pulled from its history. There is indeed conflict in the home, and I am seeing a mother, but not in a physically. Is the father raising the children alone? She feels as though she is teaching a lesson. I am not convienenced that she is alone, nor with an asailiant. I do agree that she is extremly confused and doing some bad things as a result of personal conflict. I believe that locating her soon is vital and that she believes she is in control of her situation, and doesn't realize the danger she is in. Go to the place where the father purchased the bank card for her birthday, ask the bank to do a serch of everwhere the card has been used, you'll find your girl. I believe a friend is aiding her.

O Shuabby sooooo happy to hear from you! And so glad that you are happy in TX (Texas I presume?) being from SA dont really know the abreviations over there? And yes I always tell my kids "Never forget your roots" so maybe thats why cat is happy.;-) Firstly - Thank you so much for giving me some of your time I really appreciate it. Well, you say NO to the 1st try for finance? He went to see someone this week waiting for an answer. I like the green door - the office area that you are seeing is yes mostly brown he works with wood and the dirt floors is lots of SAWDUST! Rudi is a carpenter by trade but wants to start making doors for the building industry here and there is a huge potential and demand. And yes he is gifted. His Aunt? The only one I can think of is the one that always looked at him with amazement and told him how proud she is of him. Aunty Sus we use to call her. She loved him to bits! As for Christmas, you know I feel blessed ALL the time but yes between the kids and I we have been and still are going through a bit of a rough time but blessed we are to have each other. I always tell them there are people with less than we have so we have to be gratefull and help each other where we can. Just to let you know as well, Markus's eye is doing sooo well thank the Lord, Wayne is off the drugs and doing so well as well. (Dont know if I told you about him - My eldest son, and we found out about his habit a couple of months ago) So tryng very hard to keep him on the straight and narrow and VERY DIFFICULT! Got to take it 1 day at a time suppose, but it hurts - for him and me and we dont see eye to eye regarding, but just have to keep praying and believe all will be well. Gosh, I am writing a BOOK here it is so nice to talk to you again! I am missing our chats! Better come back PLEASE PLEASE I sure miss you being here. Well, better let you go, you must be so busy and please if there is anything else I need to kwow please let me know and to your spirits a very big thank you as well. Shuabby God Bless and be well my friend (Give cat a hug from me ) Hope we talk soon again

hi chappies what makes you think he is having an affair? Have you seen any signs such as working late all of a sudden? going out more with the guys? walking out of the room when he takes a call or text message? changing his email & facebook passwords? minimizing the email windows when you walk into the room? late nite on the computer? missing money from the checking account or strange purchases on the credit cards? if you see any of these then more than likely he is starting an affair

I don't get a good feeling about this business - I think your husband will be initially very enthusiastic but will lose interest and energy and money as the business fails. I think he does not have enough business knowledge of this project to make it work. But he can and should go with something else that fires his passion and that he knows more about.

Hi Shuabby Well I wish you well where ever you go - sure is a faaaar place you moving to? Thank you for telling me about Wayne and that is just what I told him that his problem is boredom! And no, nothing really happened in the house, I just sometimes feel since we moved here out bad luck started and even my friends say they cannot believe that so much can go wrong with 1 person? But glad to hear nothing funny around, and my prayers I think also help a lot. Yes SA is beautifull, specially in summer and I know everyone that comes here from overseas cannot believe the big open spaces AND GREEN HILLS in some places. Who knows maybe one day hey? Well sure your journey will be blessed and safe, and hoping where you are going you will be very happy. 2000 miles gosh that's faaaar! So good luck and God Speed my friend and yes please look for me otherwise I am giving you my e-mail add;-) so go well. Have a safe trip God Bless Yolanda

Wayne, what do you fear will happen if you show emotion or stop using drugs? I feel that the drugs are your way of escaping the things in life that you cannot handle. But there are more healthy ways of coping.

Captain you know what, I cannot believe you are saying what you are saying! I shouted at him the other day about caring for his eye as I feel he some times just dont care to much? And my exact words were ' Maybe you want to be blind so you dont have to go thru life the hard way and looking for the easy way out!' Told him I am not going to be aroung all his life, and dont know what he is going to do when I am not there, and since I am being a bit harder on him. Anyway went to doc today again and he seems happy about the eye again. Still not 100% but happy, have to put drops every hour till 15th when we see him again, what a wonderfull man he is this doctor. As for Markus the doc actually told him as well that he should take more care of his eye. But yes, Markus is still young and have not learned about life as yet and have some growing up to be done, Thank you Captain I am sure you can also see that he 'is ' a good boy. We just keep praying thats all God Bless and thanx again

Thank you Captain, anyway I might be able to contact her? By the way nice pic now at least we see who we speak to (you still look very young) but nice picture

Hi Captain Thank you for letting me know - She is truely a wonderfull person and I AM GOING TO MISS HER VERY MUCH!!! She always made me kept my sanity ? What now? Well I always have to still talk to hey? Glad you back by the way DONT DISSIPEAR AGAIN! We worry when we all of a sudden dont see you in the forum anymore. God Bless Yolanda

Hi Shuabby, See, you got the answers girl!! Yes his grandson needs him right now, and right again as material things is not everything, I rather have the love and caring of family than anything else. Unfortuanatly we need money in this world to survive and to a lot that comes first. No wonder the bible says it is the root of all evil and I now saw it with Wayne (my other son) and the drugs, but he is THANK GOD doing fine in rehab and looking good again. Thank you Shuabby - As I said - You always make me feel better I am no longer worried and as long as we pray and believe we will be ok God Bless Yolanda PS Went to doc with Markus again today and he is very happy with his eye THANK GOD AGAIN!

O dear!! I hope not ??!! But he will onnly be there for 6 weeks so will see what happens so long as he just leaves the drugs, will cross the bridge when we get there. And YES wise words you have given me there, I know but when it comes to your children you will always be mom 1st? But yes you are right and I have now put my foot down FIRMLY!! So they now know where they stand with me. And I am going to be VERY STUBBORN ABOUT THAT!! Tks again appreaciate your advice

Hi Captain Hope you well . Thank you very much for my reading - Appreciated Yolanda

Thank you for that Captain, yes the ( couple ) I have known her for about 30 years and sad but also in a way happy to say that we had a bit of a diffrence Nov last year and have not spoken since. I have now started cleaning like you said and will take me a while to go thru the whole house but will get there asap and will let you know Tks Yolanda