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MMMM Looks like Shorty has left the room lol

Hi Shorty, Dont know if you still doing readings,but if you can I will appreciate it. -- My husband was offered a job and we will have to relocate. We went to find a house in Dec and it is bout 700 kms away from where we stay. Initially they said for him to start 1/3/12 but now saying he must come in bout 4 months. What is happening? I would like to know when this will happen? Or will it happen as they did make the offer to him and now there is stories bout in a couple of months? We specially went looking for house and let out our house now we have to cancel all?

Appreciate if you can tell me about all this.

Thank you

Hi there, My husband has another job not 100% sure yet of outcome? Can someone please tell me cos if he gets it it means that we would have to move far from where we are and if so will we be happy there?

Hi Shuabby, Glad to see you back every now and again. Hope you are well where you have moved to and hope 'Cat" is still happy as well. Can you please get your own site up we miss you!

Go well and God Bless

Sorry for butting into someone else's thread

Watergirl WOW! Some reading! I happen to agree with "some" and the not with "some". You are not strong and blunt - as I prefer people to be straight and honest as I am. May I start by saying - My younger son IS and HAS and presently been working since leaving school. He does pay me rent (on my instruction) and he gives it on payday every month. The only reason he lives here still is (as I said) had an eye operation due to having keretaconis as he was going blind. He still has to have the other eye done. He does not earn a huge salary (due to, again people found it a problem employing him with his eye problem and were gratefull for the job he did find) therefore still here. He also pays his own medical aid as well that is very expensive. He is NOT at all like his brother. He does go out with his friends and have a good time but dont over do it. His brother on the other hand being an addict, like I said before we have gone thru all the above what you have written and given me "advice" on Thank you. We have thrown him out already and again picked him up from the gutter. He (by the way) has worked since the age of 14 on weekends and holidays when he was still in school. Has worked and payed his way untill his problem started again about 2 years ago, and even on drugs he can sell an eskimo ice! He is NOT lazy to work and all that knows him tells you that he is a good worker! He has a drug problem and we are trying to help him cope with it. What I wanted to know is what do you maybe see in the future for them? Will they overcome these obsticles? And A BIG YES! I am a real softy but ONLY till a point and wont tolerate them doing what they want under my roof as I DO have my rules as well and they HAVE to adere to it and they do! Thats why he dissapears for a week or 2 at a time. I dont feel that I 'smother' them NO, as I grew up in an orphanage, looked after myself since the age of 16, and believe in you having to look after yourself. I have brought up my kids as best I could only for the problems the boys have (besides that they are good kids). The 2 girls are doing fine and no problems there. As for "smothering" my husband with love, he will probably tell you that is the case and NOT my sons BELIEVE ME. My urges as you put it is also NOT uncontrollable. Being a Scorpion I dont have to say more. O and I DO DO charity work as well! I am a housewife, clean my own house, do my own garden and with no help, and run a small bussines from home. I also try to please everybody, and help everybody where I can. And if you read what I wrote on Jaydes messages I said "Quote" I cannot believe that a mother can do that to another mother knowing what she must be going thru not knowing whereher child is. "Unquote. If that should happen to me I will phone the mother right away and sort out what ever needed to be sorted out - I could NEVER do that to another mother! As for me having to wake-up my husband has been MORE lenient regarding all this than me, I am the 'hard' one, and yes he is very supportive and he is the younger one's father. Thank you anyway for the advice I do appreciate it and will try and do what I can to help them on their way.

God Bless

Chappies

No problem Watergirl when ever you have time. Yes please I have two sons still at home and want to know what is laying ahead for them. Markus Visagie DOB 29/5/90 - Had a cornea transplant a year ago, have the other to do sometime or other - succesfull thank the Lord - but not going anyware fast? Not a problem child besides being lazy Nice child. But then for my problem child! Was thinking of Jayde's boyfriend and I have the same problem with Wayne Nakoul DOB 7/9/75. Yes a big man already!! Moved out when he was about 25 and back home again for the last 2 years. Became a drug addict at the age of 30 (dont know WHERE his brains was) and been having problems getting him off the cocaine since but to no avail. he does sooo wel and then just 1 day he is gone and stays away for a week or two. I have tried everything and I mean everything even chasing him away but then he just goes back to the people he gets the stuff from. He owes them thousands and we have paid some but NO MORE as I said as long as I am not paying they wont give him credit. He has been to rehab but was out a month and back on the stuff again! Dont know what to do anymore. Where is his life pointing to? I Yolanda Visagie am 57 and DOB 27/10/54 and at this stage of my life dont want burden myself or my husband (as he is getting tired of the situation, and dont blame him ( my 2nd husband Rudolph Gerhardus Visagie DOB 12/10/66) but just dont know anymore. Wayne is such a good person, and he does sooo well for himself if not on this stuff but says we dont understand. Well I DONT want to understand anymore but just dont know from here? Sorry I am writing a book here but I will appreciate you shedding some light on the overall situation.

Thank you so much and when you have time there is no urgency And thank you again for what you did for Jayde she is going to be home today( Monday ) and she is fine.

Hi Watergirl, Chappies here. Would it maybe possible to do a reading for me as well. Would like to know about family in particular? Yes we all have a cross to carry with children, will very much appreciate it.

Thank you

Chappies

Watergirl, you were wonderfull! Go and have a GOOD nights sleep, nothing to "bug" you tonight cos I know the family you have helped will!

Chappies

OMG Watergirl sorry I did not mention what you did, but sure you understand my gratitude! THANK YOU! You were ALL FANTASTIC - I know I keep saying THANK YOU but THANK YOU a thousand times is NOT enough when someone like you give your time in trying to help! Daliolite yes maybe the dysfunctional adult is the boy friends mother? I do not understand how an adult (a mother at that!) can hide a child from another mother knowing what she would be going thru? Watergirl I cannot thank you enough! You are FANTASTIC! And so is all of you - you are all like a puzzle that fit the pieces together. Thank you soooooo very much from the family as well. By the way, my friend always give me a hard time regarding me believing in phychics, tarot's and being a bit supersticios, but I think after this she will NEVER laugh at me again;-) She is a wonderfull person my friend but some things we dont agree on- I think till now thank you all. Tonight we can all sleep at peace. God is good! And again faith did it again as well. I feel good today. Chappies

Just to also let you know - her parents are good, honest, hardworking people and that between the kids (2 sisters and a brother) they lack absulute nothing. The parents are just like all of us and sure if your daughter is involved with a drug addict you would also not allow this. Jade is the youngest of the 3 and also a bit spoiled, and maybe have a bit to much free time, and maybe they should address that. Teenagers will be teenagers, but to put your loved ones thru something like this is terrible as they were frantic with worry. But yes - at least this is over,THANK GOD AGAIN, and after speaking to my friend and hear the whole story will let you all know. Chappies

Hi everyone YES THANK GOD SHE HAS BEEN FOUND! lilymoon you got ahead of me there! And yes apparently her ex boyfriend (who is an addict as suggested by Diolite) and his mother hid her away since she dissapeared, and her parents kept phoning and asking him and his mother if they had seen her, that his mother actually made a police case against the parents for harrasing!? Have you ever!! Anyway the parents got a PI and this morning at about 11.30am went to his house and they found her hidden( in a box!!!!) somewhere in his back yard and thats where they found her. My friend phned me and just told me that but dont know the whole story as they were at the Police Station at the time and will phone me later today again.

To ALL OF YOU - THANK YOU, THANK YOU, THANK YOU!!!!! For all your input and possitivety that we received from you. Getting in touch with all of you was MY ONLY hope and the only way I know to assist the family as I was just as worried about this child. My friend Monica (the grandmother) and I have been friends for 36 years now so she IS lilke family to me. May God bless you all for helping us and keeping us possitive. God Bless you all abunduntly. Thank you again Chappies (Yolanda)

O and Daliolite, I asked my friend about what you wanted to know, they have the same problems with her as with any household with teenagers, but there is a boy she is not allowed to see and his mother wont speak to the parents at all? If that says something I think it is very ugly about her but I always say "You get wise people and then you get otherwise people" I just hope she has nothing to do with this?

Daliolite, Thank you for your reading much appreaciated. I cannot BELIEVE the response we have from ALL of you and just want to say a thousand THANK YOU'S!!!! I have actually copy and pasted ALL your replies to her parents so maybe they can make something out of it (did not want to leave or read everything over the phone as I am in Gauteng and they are in Cape town - very far- about 900kms?) I spoke to my friend this morning and she told me that what they also found was A LOT of used bus tickets to and fro (from home and town I presume) And a friend of hers told her parents that her and the friend met with someone she met on Facebook ? They also went to see a phychic in Cape town and she told about driving around in a car? Maybe you can shed some light onto that? What they cannot understand is that she did not take any clothes with her and no money was used from her account as yet? And only a little boy saw her walking down the road? Nothing happened for her to react so drasticly as she did either? Ther are sooo many questions when something like this happens but I am truely very gratefull (and the family as well) for ALL of you trying to help. It all sounds possitive and that is the main thing TO STAY POSSITIVE. God Bless and Thank you again. Will also keep you up to date. Chappies

Daliolite

Thank you so much will be waiting your reply God Bless

Chappies

Thank you so much will be waiting your reply God Bless

Hi All, Thank you so very very much for your insight, may God Bless you all, what you are doing with your gift from God is wonderfull and I am sure I am talking for everyone that comes on this forum when I say we really really appreaciate the time you all give us. I will pass all your messages on right away and hope and pray to God she will be found soon. What stress and worry for parents and ALSO grandparents as well as friends? Thank you again I will keep checking here if there should be something else we may be able to help. God Bless Chappies

Captain, Shuabby or ANYONE THAT CAN HELP PLEASE. My friends grand daughter went missing from home after school on Wednesday 14/9/11. The driver of her fathers company (a family member) picked her up fm school said he dropped her at home and when the father phned to see if all ok at home, the sister and brother said they have not seen her. Jayde Wacker turned 16 on the 31 July and her birh year is 1995. The only things missing is her bag and her bank card that her father paid money into for her birthday. She ALSO got a Blackberry for her birthday but odly enough she did not take it with her? On checking to see what no's was received and dialed last - all of it including all messages was deleted? She has never before went anywhere unless telling the family where she is and the family is beside themselves not knowing where she is or what happened to her? They have reported it to the police but no clue so far. PLEASE PLEASE can you find it in yourselves to see if any of you can help her as we are trying any avenue and I believe in the gift that God has given you that just maybe you can help this desperate family to find their daughter. This is so appreciated and I thank you from the bottom of my heart and PLEASE GOD that they find her soon.

O Shuabby sooooo happy to hear from you! And so glad that you are happy in TX (Texas I presume?) being from SA dont really know the abreviations over there? And yes I always tell my kids "Never forget your roots" so maybe thats why cat is happy.;-) Firstly - Thank you so much for giving me some of your time I really appreciate it. Well, you say NO to the 1st try for finance? He went to see someone this week waiting for an answer. I like the green door - the office area that you are seeing is yes mostly brown he works with wood and the dirt floors is lots of SAWDUST! Rudi is a carpenter by trade but wants to start making doors for the building industry here and there is a huge potential and demand. And yes he is gifted. His Aunt? The only one I can think of is the one that always looked at him with amazement and told him how proud she is of him. Aunty Sus we use to call her. She loved him to bits! As for Christmas, you know I feel blessed ALL the time but yes between the kids and I we have been and still are going through a bit of a rough time but blessed we are to have each other. I always tell them there are people with less than we have so we have to be gratefull and help each other where we can. Just to let you know as well, Markus's eye is doing sooo well thank the Lord, Wayne is off the drugs and doing so well as well. (Dont know if I told you about him - My eldest son, and we found out about his habit a couple of months ago) So tryng very hard to keep him on the straight and narrow and VERY DIFFICULT! Got to take it 1 day at a time suppose, but it hurts - for him and me and we dont see eye to eye regarding, but just have to keep praying and believe all will be well.

Gosh, I am writing a BOOK here it is so nice to talk to you again! I am missing our chats! Better come back PLEASE PLEASE I sure miss you being here.

Well, better let you go, you must be so busy and please if there is anything else I need to kwow please let me know and to your spirits a very big thank you as well.

Shuabby God Bless and be well my friend (Give cat a hug from me )

Hope we talk soon again

Hi Shuabby, Always looking to see if you answer someone to know if you there or not. Hope you have been well and happy where you and Cat are now. If you can please, I will really appreaciate it if you can tell me? My husband wants to start a new bussines together with a work associate, but they are looking for finance. Do you think they will get it and do you think it is a good thing? Will they make it? He is not very happy where he is at present, and really set on leaving.

Anyway so nice to see you back sometimes as I really miss having you around the forum, and sure I speak for a LOT of others as well. God be with you and talk soon.

God Bless

Hi there,

Can anyone please tell me - I suspect my husband is having an affair? Is this true? Just need to know as he is denying it all BUT

Thank you