Voice from another Scorp pair...We have been together for 4 years and the intensity of our unions is amazing, but neither of us is very concerned with the frequency. Every time we do it, we say we should really do this more often and then we don't...I have always chalked it up to the fact that our relationship and friendship is so intimate, we just never needed the *** to get to the intimacy...From your post, it sounds like you want more than you are getting and THAT'S OKAY... remember that you are with your best friend and you can tell him anything...I can't imagine that he would be upset to hear that YOU WANTED HIM MORE OFTEN...LOL...Good luck!