Not that I'm saying it's your fault, but perhaps you need to try finding someone morebpatient, understanding, and level-headed. Relying too much on horoscopes is never a good idea, you may interpret it differently than it's written with a biased view. It's sometimes hard for us to be level-headed and open minded, as we swim around eratically, unsure which way to go and where we are. Stop and use reason(very hard to do for Pisces, since we tend to think with intuition, biased logic, and convincing ourselves to beleive something is true, I am a victim of this) mixed with a bit of intuition and empathy to sort out confused feelings, and learn to go with the moving current instead of going against the flow to get back to where you were before, because that moment in the past is over and done with. If your lucky, the current may take a loop and you're back where you were before, but that is not always a good thing.
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RE: Should I or Should I Not?
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RE: Should I or Should I Not?
Us piscesns are overly emotional by nature. I personally know it's impossible to get over a relationship without starting a new and better one. You need to stop chasing after her, because it sounds like you're being too clingy and this will only push her away. All you can do is put yourself out there and convince yourself you can find someone better that needs you, think more about what you want from a partner more than focusing on one person that has moved on already. Don't send her gifts, you're only proving you're thinking about yourself and what you want rather than what you think you're doing, which I assume is convincing yourself that she's the only one for you... Notice "she is the only one for me" still focuses on "me"m." I know it's hard to discern what you dealt feel, I'm a Pisces and I'm never sure of my emotions, we're just like our element, in an indescisive ocean that on the surface has a few waves from the changing winds but the undercurrents never seen and the constant swimming of fish in every direction confuse you so you're unsure which way to go. Take time to sort out your thoughts instead, compare and contrast other women so you know what you want, it's better to listen to constructive critisism instead of what you want to hear from people. There's a good chance you won't ever get this woman back... It's like trying to get a floating beach ball out of water, as you move the water and push at it to get to the ball, the more you will trip and the force you use to move ripples the water and the ball floats away faster. Slow the persuit and show restraint, the beachball might come back to the beach, depending on how far into the ocean you've pushed it already.
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RE: Please! I Need Help with my poor Leo!Please Help..
But... Take precautions... Trust your instincts and don't do anything to get yourself hurt. If all of your attempts are unsuccessful you need to move on. Don't make things theatrical, do what needs to be done.
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RE: Please! I Need Help with my poor Leo!Please Help..
But... Take precautions... Trust your instincts and don't do anything to get yourself hurt. If all of your attempts are unsuccessful you need to move on. Don't make things theatrical, do what needs to be done.
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RE: Please! I Need Help with my poor Leo!Please Help..
This actually sounds like a classic situation. He's doing something to harm himself from a huge loss and nobody is stopping him from hurting himself. The solution is not fixing the result of the drugs, you need to fix the drugs. You seem like a very kind and loving person, you might even be suffocating him, but I think it's the opposite in this case. You need to stop nursing his battle wounds and step infring of him before the battle occurs. Not that I'm saying stop him before he injects or come between a drug deal, that can get you hurt. you need to put your foot down and confront him, trick him into going to rehab if you have to. He isn't in his right mind, get a common denominator to help you, a friend or family member also concerned with his well-being, form an army if you have to. This situation is out of control of insight and psycics, though it might help with timing. You must take action to get him to rehab and don't be afraid to yell at him. He's waiting for someone to slap his nose with a newspaper and say 'No!' he won't be the same as when you started dating, but I promise if he goes to rehab he will be eternally grateful of you. Drugs literally trap people in cages with addictions, they beleive they need it. You need to let him out, and show him the light outside of his dungeon is much better than brooding. Help him through therapy, and I'm not kidding about knocking him out and tying him up and taking him to get help.
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RE: Help with Cancer Husband
And never take negative actions from a cancer too personally, it's easy for them to brood and bottle negative emotions and it will always end up coming out on the person they' re closest to. Forgiveness, communication and a calm voice are imperative.
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RE: Help with Cancer Husband
I'm not much of an expert, but my ascendant is Cancer and my best friend is a cancer... Cancers have a tendancy to hold on to things no matter howmuch it hurts them ( like a crab's vice like claws) and also put up emotional barriers to keep everyone out... Also, if your husband is like my friend, he's probably very emotional and pent-up and it's hard to keep him happy because something else will always turn up and they can irrationally hold onto a negative idea and then focus on the negative side of things more and emotionally withdraw. It is very hard for a Cancer to separate from a relationship, it's more likely he wants you to be in emotional pain to make sure he knows you can't live without him, and so you know he's hurt. The best you could do is try being as patient as you can with him, and try talking to him and find out what he needs to feel loved and respected. The key thing you need is patience and forgiveness. Take a breath and look before you leap, develop your empathy a little more and stay calm.