Well I'm a capricorn female,
from my point of view he is probably mature for his age,
and ten years younger then you is not bad, at all.
My aunt and uncle are 15 years apart and my aunt is the older one.
Their marriage lasted for 21 years and that number is still going up.
It just depends on how you feel about it,
like if the age difference is really bothering you and maybe you guys should break up.
There are plenty of fish in the sea.
To Jenever7:
Sorry about the late reply. Busy busy busy hehe.
But anyway, it's all gravy [: and thank you!
I have really been praying for you in the few days I've walked to church.
I'll keep reading updates to this discussion to see how things between you and your lover are.
Fingers crossed!
Take care! God bless.
You deserve so much better then this. SO MUCH BETTER.
He's not worth it if he hurt you like that. It's ok to still love him and miss him, but please know that there is some else out there that is so much better then him.
That will love you, treat you well, and not lie to you.
And don't blame yourself, guys can be something... hurt then crawl back then hurt again... it's not worth it. I had it like that to me sometime ago. My ex cheated on me so I broke it off, but I was so depress and couldn't concentrate on school, he crawled back to me and I was stupid of accepting him back. Then later I broke it off for good. And that event I put in my past.
There are so many good, great guys out there for you. Don't think this is the end of it, it's not lol, even though it feels like it, you just have to wait and move on [:
To sheisavirgo:
Hmm... maybe your right.
But I am really into him though, liked him for 2 years straight already. And finally this year I have a class with him.
But it's so hard to more than a short small conversations with this guy, he's really nice... ughhh...
Since I've learned... maybe virgos are too hard to catch...
Though virgos are one of the good compatibilities with cappy.
Hmm... maybe I should look for a scorpio -_- ... my best match it says...
To Jenever7:
Oh boy I do know that haha.
But I do not want to play games with this virgo guy I'm after. The other 7 guys I've dated, I never truly liked any of them in any romantic way, ever, no higher then a friend (except for boyfriend number 4) but other then that the others were a way so I didn't have that lonely feeling, till I would deal with without feeling lonely on my own (in other words I don't do it anymore, now I just say no to the guys I don't like). It was pretty stupid of me to use them, but I've learned. And I did break up with them before they wanted to be serious, so they wouldn't grow to this lie. I thought it wouldn't be fair for them. So I ended them.
If I do get virgo guy, which I can now understand is very hard, ohh mann... but if I do get him. I would not use him because I always been attracted to him and admired him. I would actually... want to try to be "serious" later on if we did get together and it did work out... (on however a "serious" highschool relationship can be... which I really don't believe but it happens haha).
But apparently, it might not happen, seeing that it's already the end of Oct. and I've made close friends with other guys in that class except for him...
*sigh
I see what you're saying Jenever7.
And yes I do not understand what you are going through,
but I hope that you will find a way to make it work and for you to be happy, I truly do.
Hopefully I'll find a love like that, not including the situation, but just the love.
I do hope it is true love between you two and not anything less.
Actually I'm in a situation right now where I am VERY attracted to this virgo guy in my class, but it's probably a crush, I'm just in highschool haha, so right now I don't take relationships seriously and I am very careful.
But I wish you the best of luck and will pray for you.
Wow...
I was reading Jenever7, allycat2, and KittyGalore stoires.
And it really touched me in a way I can not explain and with saddness.
I honestly, do not know for myself how you guys feel, so I can not say much.
I've never been truly in love like that before. I've never experienced that.
I am 15 years old, turning 16 this Dec.
I've have always stuck in my mind "love defies logic" "if not him someone better" "never settle for less" "there are plenty of fish in the sea" - I always told myself those still it was stuck in my brain.
It was hard, but I've seen too much around me, from friends and family about getting hurt.
I've dated many guys (7 to be exact) but I ended them all, before getting to close.
I've experienced some pain before like... A guy (my 4th boyfriend) I was dating for 4 months, I found out he was cheating. But I broke it off with him before he knew I knew about his cheating.
It hurt, alot. And he ran back to me... and the stupid younger me accepted him back.
I thought I really did love him, I was depress without him. But a week after accepting him back I broke it off for good. Because I never wanted to feel like this again.
The pain and humiliation.
I believe... that you can love someone else... you might not believe it now, but you can love someone else in this world.
I've been independent and very happy.
No problems or pain. I don't have to love deeply or cling on to a guy now or ever.
I know there are other guys out there.
I think people need to start to se that "love" is not worth hurting your kids... you'll probably see. I don't understand why you guys are cheating... when you have kids... You might have great deal of happiness but it's not right for people to feel that way if it causes other people to suffer.
I think "Love" truly defies logic.
To sojolove:
Oh wow...
Yeah I read from many of the replies that Virgo rarely fall inlove alot and like not easy girls...
Last year he only dated one girl (my friend's friend, she asked him out) but they only lasted like 2 weeks.
This year he was "dating" this other girl but only lasted a few days (they were just trying it out).
And I think he is a clean freak o_o oh my gawd...
His clothes always looks new and fresh...! He always has that clean cut appearence...
Last year 5 guys (one of them twice) asked me out but I turned them all down.
I haven't dated in over a year already, but I have dated 7 guys already in the past.
BUT never gave up my first kiss yet lol.
I am picky and have high standards.
This year already 2 guys like me, but I said no to both.
I live by the "Love Defies Logic" so I'm no fool in waiting forever for him, but I will try while I can.
So we'll see...
P.S. The 7 guys I dated before... I ended ALL of those relationships, no joke. Can you believe that? Lol.
Thank you all for the advice,
I have read every single one of them but I cannot reply to all individually.
I will take of note and keep in mind what you all have said to me.
So far right now, what the virgo guy and me have is very little. We had a few talks, but still not friends.
I AM trying.
I already befriended 4 guys in that class already and I just met them this year, and we all are freaking close! But I haven't befriended the virgo guy I want -_-
I'm careful on how I act around him, maybe thats the problem... I don't know...
I just want to accomplish being his friend... but so far progress is very little...
what do you mean by little min. ?
like... you guys just met and a minute later became friends? lol
like that?
Or actually I'll just type and e-mail the advice through e-mail. [:
How about that?
I'll give you my e-mail and we'll go from there.
It's still not too late till the divorce is offical.
I really want to help, truly.
So what do you say?
You have to try really hard before it's truly over, if you really want him back.
Um this might not be the right time, but I don't know what else to do but this.
There is a book... an amazing book, I think.
I think if you read it it could save your marriage. I think.
It's sold millions and millions of copies and changed over 35 million womens lives.
It's called All The Rules: Time Tested Secrets For Capturing the Heart Of Mr. Right.
http://www.amazon.com/All-Rules-Time-tested-Secrets-Capturing/dp/0446618799
I have the book myself and I have to say... it works and it's life changing.
It could help you...
In either...
Getting him back,
or moving on with confidence,
or not making the same mistakes again.
In the beginning of the book it's mostly saying how to get the man you want and how to not waste time on men that aren't worth your time.
But there is some information in there that could help you, if it's not too late.
You don't have to go with my idea but I do really want to help you really.
I feel very sad in what you're going through.
Aww thank you pipeldot!
Haha I laughed when you did the pisces saying thing.
You seem really funny and nice, any man would be lucky to have you!
And I do really wish you luck too on your love life. [:
Hope you make the right choice hehe.
And I know that if I don't get this guy it won't be the emd of the world.
I will move on haha and maybe meet someone better.
There are many fish in the sea, as my mom would always tell me.
I'm just captivated at the moment ;D
Haha first come first serve.
Thank you for your comment!
I really didn't about that in a Virgo haha.
But I will keep that in mind.
Yeah, I've found out Scorpio would be good for me in a romantic way.
Haha we'll just see. [:
Hi Everyone,
I'm a 15 year old Capricorn girl, now a sophomore in 2009. In the first few weeks of my freshmen high school year (2008), while eating lunch with my friends, I wasn't too interested of the new faces of guys around me in the lunch court area. Then out of no where I saw him. I was... captivated by this guy that I didn't even know. His tall, slim figure. The bold color coming from his clothes, as if his clothes were new and never had been washed before. He was so... clean looking. I couldn't tear my eyes off of him. Out of all the guys in the lunch court, I only saw him.
A few months I would notice him at lunch or in the hallways. I "observed" him, wanting to know more about this guy. Trying to find a fault or something bad of him so I would stop having this silly crush on this stranger. But I fell more for him. He didn't seem like a player (didn't have alot of girls ganged around him), varsity in soccer at our school since his freshmen year (he's a year older then me), liked to be alone at times (wasn't with his friends 24/7 jeez).
Some of my friends thought it was stupid of me to feel this way, I thought so too, but I couldn't help it. They told me "You know, you might like him from a far Lilia but you maybe disappointed if you get to know him, since you don't know the guy." I thought about it but it's just that... I had this very very deep feeling that if I knew him... I wouldn't be disappointed.
Since I was a freshmen and he was a sophomore I didn't have any classes with him. I'm not a shy person at all... oh not at all, I would of loved to get to know him myself by going up to him... but I am smart when it comes to dating, I do believe in man pursuing a woman. So even if I had a class with him I wouldn't talk to him first, that's my rule.
So my freshmen year went by, no luck. Summer came and I was still thinking about him. I prayed and prayed to God during the summer (I really did) to get at least one class with him in my sophomore year, cause I really wanted to get get to know him. If I didn't get a class with him when I was a sophomore then... I would of been very disappointed and would have to bear another year without knowing that beautiful person.
But,
God answered my prayers. This year, 2009, as a sophomore, I got a class with him. I was so happy, I mean what were the odds? I was rare because I was a sophomore and now he's a junior. It's already October. Already we've had small talk. Our first encounter, he called out my name (I didn't even know he knew my name o_o) but it was to help him review for a test, but at least it's a start. The class is 15 people. I have 7 people who are my friends in that class. And he has 3. So it was easier to show him my outgoing, loving, fun side. Hehe my friends LOVE me.
I'm smart and answer very smart answers in class. It's a elective class for if you want to be in the medical field. Yeah, just this year I found out both of us want to be doctors, how cute and awesome is that? I totally want to get that guy hahaha.
We would have some talk but it was for something in class, no personal get to know one another yet. Sometimes I would catch him looking at me (seriously) I'm not afraid to look people or people that I like in the eye, so I look back but sometimes (alot of times) he would quickly look at something else, it was obvious cause i sit right next to him haha. Dunno if that's a bad or good thing, or if he was just looking, but it happens often and I don't want to think about it too much.
We're both in sports, I love sports (I'm in varsity tennis, this year he's one of the two captains on our high school soccer team)
We both want to be in the medical field.
I was totally captivated by him in just the start my freshmen year.
Last year he only dated once, this year none yet.
He's very sweet and nice to talk to.
People... I really want this guy hahaha!
It's just the beginning of this year but I know time is running out. Next year we might not have another class and when he graduates I believe that will be it, and i'll have to move on. I want to try really hard to get this person before time runs out. Really to be friends first and get to know him better.
Please help me. I might be a teen (turning 16 this year in december) but things can happen if I do try, wonderful things.
Thanks!
P.S. I know he's a Virgo because he has a myspace hehe. And also sorry about the long long forum, I just wanted to tell the details so you can understand my situation. [:
God Bless.