Well I'm a capricorn female,

from my point of view he is probably mature for his age,

and ten years younger then you is not bad, at all.

My aunt and uncle are 15 years apart and my aunt is the older one.

Their marriage lasted for 21 years and that number is still going up.

It just depends on how you feel about it,

like if the age difference is really bothering you and maybe you guys should break up.

There are plenty of fish in the sea.

To Jenever7:

Sorry about the late reply. Busy busy busy hehe.

But anyway, it's all gravy [: and thank you!

I have really been praying for you in the few days I've walked to church.

I'll keep reading updates to this discussion to see how things between you and your lover are.

Fingers crossed!

Take care! God bless.

You deserve so much better then this. SO MUCH BETTER.

He's not worth it if he hurt you like that. It's ok to still love him and miss him, but please know that there is some else out there that is so much better then him.

That will love you, treat you well, and not lie to you.

And don't blame yourself, guys can be something... hurt then crawl back then hurt again... it's not worth it. I had it like that to me sometime ago. My ex cheated on me so I broke it off, but I was so depress and couldn't concentrate on school, he crawled back to me and I was stupid of accepting him back. Then later I broke it off for good. And that event I put in my past.

There are so many good, great guys out there for you. Don't think this is the end of it, it's not lol, even though it feels like it, you just have to wait and move on [:

To sheisavirgo:

Hmm... maybe your right.

But I am really into him though, liked him for 2 years straight already. And finally this year I have a class with him.

But it's so hard to more than a short small conversations with this guy, he's really nice... ughhh...

Since I've learned... maybe virgos are too hard to catch...

Though virgos are one of the good compatibilities with cappy.

Hmm... maybe I should look for a scorpio -_- ... my best match it says...

To Jenever7:

Oh boy I do know that haha.

But I do not want to play games with this virgo guy I'm after. The other 7 guys I've dated, I never truly liked any of them in any romantic way, ever, no higher then a friend (except for boyfriend number 4) but other then that the others were a way so I didn't have that lonely feeling, till I would deal with without feeling lonely on my own (in other words I don't do it anymore, now I just say no to the guys I don't like). It was pretty stupid of me to use them, but I've learned. And I did break up with them before they wanted to be serious, so they wouldn't grow to this lie. I thought it wouldn't be fair for them. So I ended them.

If I do get virgo guy, which I can now understand is very hard, ohh mann... but if I do get him. I would not use him because I always been attracted to him and admired him. I would actually... want to try to be "serious" later on if we did get together and it did work out... (on however a "serious" highschool relationship can be... which I really don't believe but it happens haha).

But apparently, it might not happen, seeing that it's already the end of Oct. and I've made close friends with other guys in that class except for him...

*sigh

I see what you're saying Jenever7.

And yes I do not understand what you are going through,

but I hope that you will find a way to make it work and for you to be happy, I truly do.

Hopefully I'll find a love like that, not including the situation, but just the love.

I do hope it is true love between you two and not anything less.

Actually I'm in a situation right now where I am VERY attracted to this virgo guy in my class, but it's probably a crush, I'm just in highschool haha, so right now I don't take relationships seriously and I am very careful.

But I wish you the best of luck and will pray for you.

Wow...

I was reading Jenever7, allycat2, and KittyGalore stoires.

And it really touched me in a way I can not explain and with saddness.

I honestly, do not know for myself how you guys feel, so I can not say much.

I've never been truly in love like that before. I've never experienced that.

I am 15 years old, turning 16 this Dec.

I've have always stuck in my mind "love defies logic" "if not him someone better" "never settle for less" "there are plenty of fish in the sea" - I always told myself those still it was stuck in my brain.

It was hard, but I've seen too much around me, from friends and family about getting hurt.

I've dated many guys (7 to be exact) but I ended them all, before getting to close.

I've experienced some pain before like... A guy (my 4th boyfriend) I was dating for 4 months, I found out he was cheating. But I broke it off with him before he knew I knew about his cheating.

It hurt, alot. And he ran back to me... and the stupid younger me accepted him back.

I thought I really did love him, I was depress without him. But a week after accepting him back I broke it off for good. Because I never wanted to feel like this again.

The pain and humiliation.

I believe... that you can love someone else... you might not believe it now, but you can love someone else in this world.

I've been independent and very happy.

No problems or pain. I don't have to love deeply or cling on to a guy now or ever.

I know there are other guys out there.

I think people need to start to se that "love" is not worth hurting your kids... you'll probably see. I don't understand why you guys are cheating... when you have kids... You might have great deal of happiness but it's not right for people to feel that way if it causes other people to suffer.

I think "Love" truly defies logic.

To sojolove:

Oh wow...

Yeah I read from many of the replies that Virgo rarely fall inlove alot and like not easy girls...

Last year he only dated one girl (my friend's friend, she asked him out) but they only lasted like 2 weeks.

This year he was "dating" this other girl but only lasted a few days (they were just trying it out).

And I think he is a clean freak o_o oh my gawd...

His clothes always looks new and fresh...! He always has that clean cut appearence...

Last year 5 guys (one of them twice) asked me out but I turned them all down.

I haven't dated in over a year already, but I have dated 7 guys already in the past.

BUT never gave up my first kiss yet lol.

I am picky and have high standards.

This year already 2 guys like me, but I said no to both.

I live by the "Love Defies Logic" so I'm no fool in waiting forever for him, but I will try while I can.

So we'll see...

P.S. The 7 guys I dated before... I ended ALL of those relationships, no joke. Can you believe that? Lol.

Thank you all for the advice,

I have read every single one of them but I cannot reply to all individually.

I will take of note and keep in mind what you all have said to me.

So far right now, what the virgo guy and me have is very little. We had a few talks, but still not friends.

I AM trying.

I already befriended 4 guys in that class already and I just met them this year, and we all are freaking close! But I haven't befriended the virgo guy I want -_-

I'm careful on how I act around him, maybe thats the problem... I don't know...

I just want to accomplish being his friend... but so far progress is very little...

what do you mean by little min. ?

like... you guys just met and a minute later became friends? lol

like that?