I was reading Jenever7, allycat2, and KittyGalore stoires.
And it really touched me in a way I can not explain and with saddness.
I honestly, do not know for myself how you guys feel, so I can not say much.
I've never been truly in love like that before. I've never experienced that.
I am 15 years old, turning 16 this Dec.
I've have always stuck in my mind "love defies logic" "if not him someone better" "never settle for less" "there are plenty of fish in the sea" - I always told myself those still it was stuck in my brain.
It was hard, but I've seen too much around me, from friends and family about getting hurt.
I've dated many guys (7 to be exact) but I ended them all, before getting to close.
I've experienced some pain before like... A guy (my 4th boyfriend) I was dating for 4 months, I found out he was cheating. But I broke it off with him before he knew I knew about his cheating.
It hurt, alot. And he ran back to me... and the stupid younger me accepted him back.
I thought I really did love him, I was depress without him. But a week after accepting him back I broke it off for good. Because I never wanted to feel like this again.
The pain and humiliation.
I believe... that you can love someone else... you might not believe it now, but you can love someone else in this world.
I've been independent and very happy.
No problems or pain. I don't have to love deeply or cling on to a guy now or ever.
I know there are other guys out there.
I think people need to start to se that "love" is not worth hurting your kids... you'll probably see. I don't understand why you guys are cheating... when you have kids... You might have great deal of happiness but it's not right for people to feel that way if it causes other people to suffer.
I think "Love" truly defies logic.