Hi CC -
Yes, soon! ME, too!
I miss everyone!!! (hi Jenna!)
Hugs from Fripp Island, SC - We come here often for a beach vacation and just love it.
I wrote a book here today and it's gone with the wind. I must start writing these in an email or 'word' and then pasting them here so I can repost when they really don't show up. Things are going fairly well with my guy I am happy to report. He is still depressed and recently (I think) got a supplement to what he had been taking for it so hopefully he will be back stronger soon. I like it that he is the type of man that is aware when things aren't right (the depression over losing his mother and the ex wife doing some really nasty things) and gets help right away.
I got in touch with Bente and helped her a bit with her Pendy and answered some questions for her. I will check in again soon and when I get home and see my guy again I will let you all know if things have changed or not! : ) You know.....we never know from day to day with these guys! My heart is happy so all I can do is enjoy each day that I can...the bottom has a way of dropping out from under us. I said quite a bit of hellows to you all individually and had a nessage to Dr. Pisces that was lost....darn.
Take care and stay in touch....
Love to all...
Ginny --- I cannot believe no one has given you their opinion yet. Then let me be the first:
In all my years with the Pendulum and Tarot...but especially the Pendulum....I have never read or heard anything about it damaging someone's "energy field"! The pendulum is taping in to your own subconscious which is connected like a web to the universe and certainly beyond the veil that divides the bodily people from Spirit...and, yes...a universal energy field! Which is how psychics tap into the future. But using it will not damage your own. You can use it all you want but.....know that earth bound spirits of a lower vibration can enter into play and make a temporary negative impact. ....ASK your pendulum personally, before each reading session, if it needs cleansing, protection (prayer or blessings of protection) which could be what is happening or happened to you. I am hopeful that by now you and your 'Pendy' are better. Next, I will post is something I just wrote earlier today for some people using the Pendulum. But for now I want to tell you that the best cleansing is a combination of three things.....
1. A soaking and swishing around in salt water. Once you swish it a bit..let it soak for 10- 30 mins or more. Rinse with clear water if any metal is involved, ie. the chain or brass pendulum.
2. Let it sun bathe a while if its a good day.
3. Syy a protecting prayaer asking for only total protection from any negative influences by surrounding you and your pendulum in a white light of love and peace and truth.
It's also a good idea, as you probably know, not to let anyone else handle it. Store it away in a small pouch or box of some type. I prefer a black pouch as I store my cards in a black cloth.
Before each reading session..again.....ASK it if it needs cleansing...if it feels strong enough to answer your questions today and if that response is still a weak little yes then tell it to show you....prove it is strong enough by strong responses and literally you will watch the force grow immediately if its fine.
From what you said about bold responses from you early on....then you are six sensory connected already and have saved yourself the long periods of time it takes some people to achieve success with the pendulum. It worked that way for me, too...but with a background of years of study with and of Spirit. When I use "Spirit" I mean all forms collective consciousness....I had immediate strong responses as well.
One last comment.....the only thing that may waiver is when you ask questions about the future. Often times....those questions can be answered correctly but you can never take anything about the future to the bank. The reason is FREE WILL. If another person is involved....free will can change things...even things that were that person's intention can change. We have no control over someone elses' impact on a situation. It is good to check frequently on something that was foretold to be sure things are still going as you were told. Sometimes...even at the last minute...it can change.
I hope I have been helpful. We all go on what we have studied and what we have experienced so others may not agree with me. I will come back with what I wrote earlier as I said but by the time I finished with this it was almost all retold. I will do it just in case something was not hit upon.
Good luck to you, my friend....
Love, Light and Peace...
it's Mom...back from the war. My cancer man and I are speaking again and he came over for dinner last night. I actually saw inside his houe on Sunday night for the first time. I'm still not sure how things will end up or even continue as I am tied up totally this week with two grands visiting starting today.... and then we leave for vacation on Saturday where the three of us will meet up with their parenst and m/y daughter and her family at the beach. Enough on that....I was the one who broke down and wrote to him. I told him how disappointed in him I was and much more and that turned into a dialogue. Things aren't yet perfect but the only time they ever were was in the very beginning before he got scared and withdrew.
Veritas --- I hurt for you. My ex-husband (Sag.) had a sixteen year affair with his ''assistant' and I am the one who got her the job. He was nine years older and through I had always suspected he was cheating on me before her...I thought she would be safe since she was a friend and so much older. WRONG! I can tell you...the first thing the counselor told us was that the marriage would not mend with the two of them working together. (meaning in the same building even!) So I cannot believe you can not go insane knowing each day he is seeing her. It is possible for a man to love two women at the same time but it deminishes the quality of either relationship. If his superiors knew of the affair he could be nfired. The law suit to the Company - could be devastating and no employee is worth that to a company. I know in this day and age someone cannot be 'fired' for a personal reason like this one but there are ways and one is to talk with the woman (him or both of you) and tell her perhaps that he will get her help finding a new jop elsewhere with a raving rec. and time to find it but for the sake of his mariage and her own life he hopes she will do it. (?) Would that fly? Is she married, too?
I finally told my now EX's 'assistant' at a special meeting I set up with her after the counselor told us about how it can't work....that if he didn't have her resignation on his desk by Monday (this was a friday) that I would be telling her husband. She was furious and hateful and mean to me and I was stunned thinking....She hates M E ?? However....On Monday morning it was on his desk. He was more than ready for her to go...he said he tried to break up with her two years prior but she was hanging on and driving him crazy --so he said. Trouble here is that within three months after she was gone and I so hopeful ....he started an affair with the receptionist! (16 years younger!) LOL Go FIGURE! Perhaps your man isn't bad through and through as mine was. If she is married...pull my trump card! She has to GO~! I so feel your pain and heartache all over again. No wife deserves this sort of treatment and distrust each day. Knowing he is working by her side in unbearable. Good luck to you....
Well everyone.....I think it's time I left the group since I no longer have a cancer man to gripe about. I will check in now and then and see how you are. I've loved getting to know all of you and those on FB can reach me there. Encourage the newbys to try the pendulum. Instructions are in the pendulum forum under divination...easy to find, on page three there, I think. Behave now children!
Hugs to all...
I cannot figure out what is going on with Pendy. I can get clear information for everyone else but a total stall out for myself. I have just tried for 30 mins with THREE cleansings in sea salt water. Tom told me he, Ken and I were all psychically connected.. If that's true why can't I figure out what is going on here? I just realized most of you won't know what I am talking about. I thought I wrote about Tom here recently but it must have been facebook. Tom was my guy for 5 years until he died of Leukemia three years ago. He told me he would do all he could to place the right man for me in my path. This morning I had a very vivid dream and Tom told me everything would work out perfectly with Ken. He told me to have faith. OK....since then I wanted more answers because Tom would not tell me more...he just smiled and repeated to have faith. You know....I have maintained faith for five months. Then there was the breakup and how much faith do I have to have? I believe Tom came to me for a really big reason. We really are connected. So...I am handing it over to God. After all....what we all want, or should want is the best and highest outcome for all involved...not just ourselves. It all has to be good for all concerned or it isn't the right choice we are making.
All that being said....I do have faith. I have faith that no matter what the outcome it is part of God's plan for me. But I do have faith in Tom's words, too. He said he was but a messenger but one with pure love for both myself and Ken and assured me that things will be wonderful. That could mean wonderful seperately but I just know he meant together.
So girls.....I will report in as information becomes available. I would appreciate any positive thoughts or prayers that the best and highest solution for the good of all concerned will prevail. In fact...that has been my wish with all of you through the weeks on this forum.
Love, Light and Peace...
CC -- Sorry I missed this last night.....I know you are sleeping but I a m leaving town as soon as i wrap a few things up here..probably around 8ish but I'll be back soon...I have more to say here but need some coffee. I will email you the results. I hope you didn't mess things up.
As each day passes with no word from my guy I have to admit....I am in a really bad place. First he stood me up....knew he hurt me terribly with the front door confrontation when he admitted he just stood me up. on purpose... one phone call saying he couldn't make it could have made a huge difference...so it was clear he was ready to kick me to the curb. Then his birthday and my short note and an ebook, thanks to Jenna and one would think if he isn't about to apologize that he would have at least sent back two small words...Thank You. Nothing else would have been necessary...just a thank you. Now more days have passed and I have done everything I can think of to get him off my mind but nothing is working. The other guys pale in comparison...not that thee have been a lot from which to choose, that's for sure!
I would bet no one is here to cheer me tonight. Not that anyone could. It's just getting harder as each new day passes with not even a thank you. He must have wanted me gone for months! Now I am embarrassed It took me so long to figure it out and he was too nice to just tell me....until he had to flatly stand me up to get me gone... Actions really do speak louder than words... But how could I have been so wrong about him? I really felt it in my heart that he cared for me, too. I guess every girl who has ever been dumped felt the same way...
Tonight is my worst night so far....
I hope everyone else is having fun and fireworks are popping. I suppose I would have been out tonight, as well....if I had never met him. But ..I did meet him. Fireworks are one of my favorite things. Maybe next year. I hate to keep dwelling on this but wouldn't you think good manners would have allowed him to just say .....thank you. Perhaps he thought I was bugging him?
OK...I dozed twice while writing this. And I wondered how I would get any sleep again tonight!
Good night all.
CC -- Did the pendy thing for you ....all was great for you. He is all about you...so don't push too hard with this other guy. Why do you think it wouldn't hurt him when you "let him know" about this other guy? Just because he said what he did.....after giving you a key to his shelter cove....doesn't mean it's not true that he's all about you....it means he showd you too many cards and he is trying to breast them now. You know how they are. So....don't bite off your nose, woman.
Hello again. Just wanted to update you. Things continued not to go well with Mr. Cancer Man so we are apart. Now I have even more time to ponder what I want and hope love will knock on my door soon. I am not willing to spend the rest of my life....looking to find or looking to be found. I do know what I want and it's exactly who he was in the beginning. Things changed dramatically and I hung on...probably much, much too long. But I did and it is what it is. I just had a hard time letting go of what I hoped would be the end of my searching. Trust me on this. I wasn't just looking for any man....I was looking for that special man that would be my everything from best friend to chemically charged lover forever more! I have had my share of loss and pain and every bit of it came from a man --- one way or another. I was very careful this time. So, needless to say, I and very gunshy right now. I would have bet the farm on this man. I guess its a good thing I didn't!
Thanks again for your cool headed advice. I am coasting slowly and in the end....My slowly could come to a screaching halt. But if it does, it does. I know that I wasn;t meant to be alone but as I have said for years....being alone isn't nearly as bad as being with the wrong person.
Love, light and peace....
CC --- And any others who can help....
I want to go back to about page 80 in the forum and don't want to do it manually...I have done that a few times and it takes forever! So CC....this is what I need in your 2-part question...you wrote:
or one of the two here in the forum that is for searching within it? <--Yes....that one.
Jenna (j3d) Have fun on the camp out! (But watch out for the snakes!)
CC, do you...or does anyone know why the box that says 'go to' isn't working now....its at the first page of each forum. Anyway....I wanted to go back and read waterman and the other cancer man's comments so I was thinking to catch the first ones I would need to go back to about page 70. There was a time when I could type in that page and it would open. Its not doing it now which erally is a pain.
Not leaving for the mountains until Saturday and back Sun. or Monday early. A g/f was going with me and had to be back Sunday but now she can't go so I do'lt have to work around her schedule.
I've had this computer nine months and kept fussing about how light the touch was on the keys ----my typing was horrible with the double strike of certain letters, and crazy typos. I went in and changed the touch and its made all the differrence!
Thanks....let me know!
CC Yes it was great....no I didn't know they were on or I would have recorded it!
I wrote to you on FB! So glad you are ok and enjoying your new ride.
Just back from the IL DIVO Concert in Atlanta and it was fantastic! Even my daughter went on and on about them which made me feel really good becasue I wasn't sure if she would totally love them but she did and I heard her talking to her husband after we got back to her house when I was going to bed. She told him many of the songs they sang and raved some more. Fantastic night!
I have not heard from my ex. Didn't expect to but I knew you all want an update. His b'day was yesterday and I did send him an email that early morning. I told him Happy Birthday and that I attached the 'stop smoking' ebook Jenna so graciously offered. Then I told him good luck and no hard feelings. I meant all of it, of course.
I'm doing better than the past couple of days. However, I finally lost a couple of tears Tuesday evening just feeling melancholy, I suppose. He is in VA visiting family for the 4th and celebrating his birthday, too, I suppose. That's about all I have, girls.
Sorry I have no advice at the moment...haven't caught up and may not be able to. Heading for the mountains some time tomorrow...early in the day. I just got back in an hour ago from the other IL Divo trip and now back out. Back Sunday evening but my laptop will be with me. That means...no one get into any trouble while I'm gone! I may not show my face often but I check in frequently!!
So, behave kids...
I was a week ago today about an hour from now when I cut him lose...though he forced me to do it.