Hi CC -

Yes, soon! ME, too!

I miss everyone!!! (hi Jenna!)

Hugs from Fripp Island, SC - We come here often for a beach vacation and just love it.

~Mom

Hi everyone....

I wrote a book here today and it's gone with the wind. I must start writing these in an email or 'word' and then pasting them here so I can repost when they really don't show up. Things are going fairly well with my guy I am happy to report. He is still depressed and recently (I think) got a supplement to what he had been taking for it so hopefully he will be back stronger soon. I like it that he is the type of man that is aware when things aren't right (the depression over losing his mother and the ex wife doing some really nasty things) and gets help right away.

I got in touch with Bente and helped her a bit with her Pendy and answered some questions for her. I will check in again soon and when I get home and see my guy again I will let you all know if things have changed or not! : ) You know.....we never know from day to day with these guys! My heart is happy so all I can do is enjoy each day that I can...the bottom has a way of dropping out from under us. I said quite a bit of hellows to you all individually and had a nessage to Dr. Pisces that was lost....darn.

Take care and stay in touch....

Love to all...

Mom

Ginny --- I cannot believe no one has given you their opinion yet. Then let me be the first:

In all my years with the Pendulum and Tarot...but especially the Pendulum....I have never read or heard anything about it damaging someone's "energy field"! The pendulum is taping in to your own subconscious which is connected like a web to the universe and certainly beyond the veil that divides the bodily people from Spirit...and, yes...a universal energy field! Which is how psychics tap into the future. But using it will not damage your own. You can use it all you want but.....know that earth bound spirits of a lower vibration can enter into play and make a temporary negative impact. ....ASK your pendulum personally, before each reading session, if it needs cleansing, protection (prayer or blessings of protection) which could be what is happening or happened to you. I am hopeful that by now you and your 'Pendy' are better. Next, I will post is something I just wrote earlier today for some people using the Pendulum. But for now I want to tell you that the best cleansing is a combination of three things.....

1. A soaking and swishing around in salt water. Once you swish it a bit..let it soak for 10- 30 mins or more. Rinse with clear water if any metal is involved, ie. the chain or brass pendulum.

2. Let it sun bathe a while if its a good day.

3. Syy a protecting prayaer asking for only total protection from any negative influences by surrounding you and your pendulum in a white light of love and peace and truth.

It's also a good idea, as you probably know, not to let anyone else handle it. Store it away in a small pouch or box of some type. I prefer a black pouch as I store my cards in a black cloth.

Before each reading session..again.....ASK it if it needs cleansing...if it feels strong enough to answer your questions today and if that response is still a weak little yes then tell it to show you....prove it is strong enough by strong responses and literally you will watch the force grow immediately if its fine.

From what you said about bold responses from you early on....then you are six sensory connected already and have saved yourself the long periods of time it takes some people to achieve success with the pendulum. It worked that way for me, too...but with a background of years of study with and of Spirit. When I use "Spirit" I mean all forms collective consciousness....I had immediate strong responses as well.

One last comment.....the only thing that may waiver is when you ask questions about the future. Often times....those questions can be answered correctly but you can never take anything about the future to the bank. The reason is FREE WILL. If another person is involved....free will can change things...even things that were that person's intention can change. We have no control over someone elses' impact on a situation. It is good to check frequently on something that was foretold to be sure things are still going as you were told. Sometimes...even at the last minute...it can change.

I hope I have been helpful. We all go on what we have studied and what we have experienced so others may not agree with me. I will come back with what I wrote earlier as I said but by the time I finished with this it was almost all retold. I will do it just in case something was not hit upon.

Good luck to you, my friend....

Love, Light and Peace...

Correction - SHE was 9 years older.

Hi Everyone...

it's Mom...back from the war. My cancer man and I are speaking again and he came over for dinner last night. I actually saw inside his houe on Sunday night for the first time. I'm still not sure how things will end up or even continue as I am tied up totally this week with two grands visiting starting today.... and then we leave for vacation on Saturday where the three of us will meet up with their parenst and m/y daughter and her family at the beach. Enough on that....I was the one who broke down and wrote to him. I told him how disappointed in him I was and much more and that turned into a dialogue. Things aren't yet perfect but the only time they ever were was in the very beginning before he got scared and withdrew.

Veritas --- I hurt for you. My ex-husband (Sag.) had a sixteen year affair with his ''assistant' and I am the one who got her the job. He was nine years older and through I had always suspected he was cheating on me before her...I thought she would be safe since she was a friend and so much older. WRONG! I can tell you...the first thing the counselor told us was that the marriage would not mend with the two of them working together. (meaning in the same building even!) So I cannot believe you can not go insane knowing each day he is seeing her. It is possible for a man to love two women at the same time but it deminishes the quality of either relationship. If his superiors knew of the affair he could be nfired. The law suit to the Company - could be devastating and no employee is worth that to a company. I know in this day and age someone cannot be 'fired' for a personal reason like this one but there are ways and one is to talk with the woman (him or both of you) and tell her perhaps that he will get her help finding a new jop elsewhere with a raving rec. and time to find it but for the sake of his mariage and her own life he hopes she will do it. (?) Would that fly? Is she married, too?

I finally told my now EX's 'assistant' at a special meeting I set up with her after the counselor told us about how it can't work....that if he didn't have her resignation on his desk by Monday (this was a friday) that I would be telling her husband. She was furious and hateful and mean to me and I was stunned thinking....She hates M E ?? However....On Monday morning it was on his desk. He was more than ready for her to go...he said he tried to break up with her two years prior but she was hanging on and driving him crazy --so he said. Trouble here is that within three months after she was gone and I so hopeful ....he started an affair with the receptionist! (16 years younger!) LOL Go FIGURE! Perhaps your man isn't bad through and through as mine was. If she is married...pull my trump card! She has to GO~! I so feel your pain and heartache all over again. No wife deserves this sort of treatment and distrust each day. Knowing he is working by her side in unbearable. Good luck to you....

Well everyone.....I think it's time I left the group since I no longer have a cancer man to gripe about. I will check in now and then and see how you are. I've loved getting to know all of you and those on FB can reach me there. Encourage the newbys to try the pendulum. Instructions are in the pendulum forum under divination...easy to find, on page three there, I think. Behave now children!

Hugs to all...

Mom

Happy Brithday one more time, Waterman. Glad all is well with your mouth....or close to well at least.

I trust everyone had a great fourth!

I cannot figure out what is going on with Pendy. I can get clear information for everyone else but a total stall out for myself. I have just tried for 30 mins with THREE cleansings in sea salt water. Tom told me he, Ken and I were all psychically connected.. If that's true why can't I figure out what is going on here? I just realized most of you won't know what I am talking about. I thought I wrote about Tom here recently but it must have been facebook. Tom was my guy for 5 years until he died of Leukemia three years ago. He told me he would do all he could to place the right man for me in my path. This morning I had a very vivid dream and Tom told me everything would work out perfectly with Ken. He told me to have faith. OK....since then I wanted more answers because Tom would not tell me more...he just smiled and repeated to have faith. You know....I have maintained faith for five months. Then there was the breakup and how much faith do I have to have? I believe Tom came to me for a really big reason. We really are connected. So...I am handing it over to God. After all....what we all want, or should want is the best and highest outcome for all involved...not just ourselves. It all has to be good for all concerned or it isn't the right choice we are making.

All that being said....I do have faith. I have faith that no matter what the outcome it is part of God's plan for me. But I do have faith in Tom's words, too. He said he was but a messenger but one with pure love for both myself and Ken and assured me that things will be wonderful. That could mean wonderful seperately but I just know he meant together.

So girls.....I will report in as information becomes available. I would appreciate any positive thoughts or prayers that the best and highest solution for the good of all concerned will prevail. In fact...that has been my wish with all of you through the weeks on this forum.

Love, Light and Peace...

Mom

CC --- I left comments at least 20 mins ago so I am not sure it's refreshing again and losing our posts. If you need me...call. Check facebook and work email.

I'm in such a fog I think I canceled my last missive. I'll check back in a few.