Hi. I'm a Capricon (01/05/1981) and I have been married to my husband (Gemini 05/29/1979) for 8 years, been together for 10. We have two daughters together. My problem is that I want to leave him. He is a good man, and a good father, but he puts his job before us. We have almost divorced once before about this, but I was determined to make it work. Here it is, 4 years later, and it is still the same old story. I have tried talking to him about this and he still acts as if there is nothing wrong with the fact that he barely sees his daughers. When he is home, he is a wonderful father to them. As far as I'm concerned, I think I fell out of love with him a long time ago. I have more or less stayed with him for financial reasons, as well the kids. I have also met a man who I connected with instantly. He is also married. We have discussed at length that we are both unhappy and will eventually each get divorced to our spouses and maybe end up togther. We neither one want to divorce our spouses because of adultry so our relationship has never been physical. Emotionally, yes, but we realized that we needed to slow it way down. I don't know if we will end up together, but I would like to. I am not getting divorced because of this man. I know that there is a HUGE possibility that we will never end up together. But, even knowing this, I am ready to start the path to divorcing my husband. Am I making the right decision for me and my daughters? I have tried so hard to keep my marriage in place, but I'm just tired of trying and being the only one trying. The man I have fallen for is an Aries (04/05/1985) and he has already told me that he loves me and wants me to be in his life. I don't think he is playing me, but what are your thoughts?
Thanks in advanced!!