Elixee...thanks for the response...I am going to give the new one a chance...YES the *** is the best!! Although I would appreciate something more along with it We'll see! I also read another post by TheCaptain that helped me realize that I may have just experienced a really immature Scorp/person - although he is older than I...Guess age really is just a number Hope to have a good report on the new one...I'll try to keep my clothes on for a bit!!

@ The Captain - thanks for confirming that I'm not nuts... You summed and experience that made me afraid to deal with another scorpio man. I could not deal with his inability to let go of his past and how he handled it with me. I thought that AP/Scorpio were supposed to be a good combo, and maybe we are if we're on the same maturity level and over our pasts (i am).

I should have known he was a fool when he compared his last break up to my little girl dying. UGH. not equal!!! not at all!!

wish me luck, I'm giving this new one a chance

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“Drama is not just screaming and hair-pulling. Pretending to be cold and mysterious is a drama. Anytime someone pretends to be other than who they really are is a piece of drama.”

“Mind games, secrecy, revenge, and manipulation are the hallmarks of an immature Scorpion.”

Hey everyone, I've enjoyed reading all of your posts...I haven't seen any cap/scorpio comments yet...is this a bad combo?? I had a REALLY bad break up with one recently (our second try), and I am terrified to date another for fear of the same foolishness.

I thought that CAP/SCORPIO were supposed to be a great combo, did I just get an evil one? He seems to have problems letting go of the fact that his life hasn't gone as he planned...neither has mine?? lol Anyway, he is really angry about how his Cancer EX left him 3 yrs ago, and married someone else - I found this out in the end. i am a CAP and have no problem letting go of BS as I have let this clown go for good. What a waste of his life?? I asked him to act like I'm dead and never contact me again because I will not try a third time with him. pure craziness.

Anyway, I have met yet another scorpio man (older tho - woohoo), and he is quite successful and "seems" to be well balanced, but I am terrified of getting involved with someone else that may be stuck in their past and play with my emotions again - he is divorced.

Is our combo worth the effort??? We are great sexually, but is there hope for anything deeper??? Seriously, the three men that I've met after the last guy are all Scorpio!!! I love their masculinity and sexiness but the emotional imbalance it a lot to handle...Its raining Scorpios around here! lol

thanks I love reading these blogs...I have an update though...CAPS are VERY MEAN if you cross us after we trust you! LOL

My Cancer turned out to be a big liar. He travels alot for work and turns out that he traveled to one state so much because he has a WIFE there! OMG! How horrible...After some questioning & research, I find that she is a Pisces...Now, I love Pisces peeps, always pretty nice. BUT

If the connection between Pisces woman and Cancer men what makes them stray? Are Cancer rmen just cheaters by nature?? this was my first one. He even had the nerve to ask me not to leave him when I found out about the wife????? WTF? Do ya'll really put up with this crap from men b/c you're so nice? Do you have a mean side? I cannot comprehend, is it my sign? Caps I know aren't capable of taking this kind of mess - including myself - we need honest, trustworthy companions that dont take kindness for weakness.

In order to ensure that he NEVER contacts me again, I sent his wife a VERY detailed letter to let her know what he's up to when he is here - he lives in my state most of the year. Is that why you say CAPs are evil, we believe in payback? If so, I'm OK with that b/c I was good & very loving towards him - hence him asking me to stay. Just sharing...peace & luv : )

He hasn't threatend me at the moment, but I know that he is crazy.

Right now, he is too angry for words & trying to lie his way out if the intimate details that I shared with his wife...I don't mean to be hurtful to her, I mean to inform her that she married to an extremely deceitful loser... He is dangerously playing with lives, and yes, I too hope that this will make him change his ways...Honey, I guarantee that he will think twice about doing it again anytime soon after the nuclear attack that I launced last week... Just pitiful.

OMG!!! YES!!!! WOO HOO!!! I may need a bodyguard for a few weeks until he cools off, but I am officially Cancer free!!! : ) hahaha

I love to read these posts every once in a while... I last said that I was loving my cancer. Well, that is over. The last few posts here have summed it all up! I knew that he was a little moody at times, but I accepted that b/c I can be too.. You all have said it correctly, they are not worth the time...I'm a CAP and can be moody and too independent, but one thing I am not is selfish and a liar...

My Cancer turned out to be married (in another state) and go mad at me for finding out? Yes, people, I research EVERY man that I date - this info just took a little longer to locate LOL..Anywhoo...he is PISSed at me forever - which I am fine with that WOOHOO!!! Stay away...Its like I have been cured of a terminal ILLNESSS... Oh, did I say that I mentioned the entire 4 month situation to his wife? Yep, I believe in truth & justice da$mit! Shes a Pisces (and may not be as brutal as I am, so I hung him by the nuts for BOTH of us! I just think that women should stick together & I'm not sleep with each other's husbands and let the other woman know whats up...

I'm a pretty tough gal, but he did a number on my emotions. Even talked about thinking he was going to end up putting a ring on my finger -- ummm he was already married?! lmao what a loser. These guys seem to start off great in the beginning, but cannot maintain because deep down, they are insecure, selfish, manipulative, mean, overly sensitive (but not to your feelings)cold as ice psychos. I feel sorry for his wife. I LOVE pisces people : ) I hope she has enough self-esteem to see her way out!!

Anywhoo...I have learned my lesson with thie MISERABLE sign! OMG! Thanks to all of you for your honesty and sharing. Love can be painful, but I hope and believe that we will all eventually find our match

no, all caps are NOT like that! I think that I was born in the wrong month : ( I'm very emotional AND romantic - love deeply very committed, but seem to have a difficult time finding the same : ) Back wiht my Cancer - I know, such a fool!!! lOl he won me over - for now. I used my evil side (yeah it comes out smetimes - not often) to set him strait. My way or leave me alone. We will see what happenes.

My absolute WORST lover was a SAG BTW...could've been just him tho

hey, be nice!! I'm a Cappy gal and i LOVE my Cancer baby!!!! We aren't ALL evil!! : ) He seems quie happy

Oh, and for the ladies giving out cash....when I was 18 an old man that I didn't know approached me atold me that if a man EVER asks you for money to RUN. Even if its five dollars! I will stick to that no matter what his sign is!! best of luck = )