Sorry lininneed I completely understand what you are going through. Have been seeing a man
for 3 yrs. Has given every excuse in the book for not getting a divorce. There will always be an
excuse and Im at the point where I have no faith in his promises anymore. I have given him
an ultimatum that if he doesnt show me divorce papers the relationship will be over.
Though I love him with all my heart the lonliness and taking second place is simply not worth
it. Damaging my self esteem, also not worth that. Just remember that you deserve more.
You deserve a real commitment. Hang tough.