Still doing this?
By the way, I think the dating service thing is a fantastic idea. Utterly fantastic. I've been searching for a virgo for forever and it's way too difficult.
I'm a Cap/Scorp/Virgo.
It's a very frustrating combination when it comes to speaking my mind and letting people know how I feel.
Because of this, I think I've sabatoged a lot of my relationships. I'm externally very passive. I don't like conflict or confrontation. To avoid it, I go to great lengths: letting people walk all over me, keeping my mouth shut when someone says/does something that offends me, ignoring anything that could possibly turn into a disagreement, or disregarding any trash talk I catch wind of.
Eventually, I begin to brood. My emotions churn and though my surface is still calm and friendly, below I'm boiling. That's when it happens. I take off running. I cut ties, never explaining what's happened to make me go. I figure, if the "friend" can't see that they've been mistreating me for so long, then they don't deserve to have me around. I'm incredibly loyal and it wounds the worst when I find that someone else hasn't been.
As a side note, I don't drop friendships over something little. I've found that it's almost always, at the very least, a year of built up aggitation.
I guess I know the solution to this is to start letting people know when they're beginning to bug me. I've lost almost every friend I have in this way and it's becoming rather ridiculous. On the other hand, with the exception of one being a pisces, every friend this has happened with has been a Taurus. They're great people in the begining, especially for a Capricorn. But after a strong bond develops, I notice that they get comfortable with bullying and manipulating. I just like them SO much.
Casper, I'm the same way! I'm incredibly passive. I mean, internally I'll want to rip someone's face off, but externally my surface is cool and calm, bending to the wants and wishes of others so I can avoid confrontation. To me, it's like the plague.
I know my inner struggles comes from Saturn, big bully planet that it is, but I'm not sure where my need for peace comes from.
I've found that gemini's are just way too fickle. Their split personality has a tendency to shift without warning. One minute, they're sweet, sincere and lovey dovey, the next they're insulting you and being super stuck up and edgy.
I hate it. I tried to date a gemini for a year and it ended horribly. He was manipulative and controlling and insulted me all the time. He also neglected me a LOT and I found out that he was screwing around on a lot of online dating/webcam sites. He refused to change. That's not to say that yours will do the same. I guess someone has to love them : P
In all seriousness, I would sit him down and make (or try to) him understand just what he's doing and what the consequences are if he continues. Find a way to make him see that you're serious.
Scorpio's like to play mind games. They plot and plot, in the dark, where you can't possibly know what's going on in that head of theirs. They're incredibly intense lovers and need a lot of reassurance from their lover. Were you giving that to him?
Also, knowing that they need an emotionally intense relationship, you probably stung him when you didn't say "I love you" back. It takes a LOT for them to get to that point; verbally acknowledging their deep feelings. Even though he says he doesn't remember, and even though it seemed "out of the blue," he probably remembered and has been weighing out what to do every since that drunken night. They're tricky like that.
If you haven't brought the "I love you" thing up, you need to. He may actually just need the personal space he's talking about, or he made need to hear that even though you didn't say it back that night, it doesn't rule out the possibility of you saying it in the future (if it's an actual possibility that is).
Hope this helped! Good luck!
I'm a Cap, through and through.
I find it interesting that no matter what, my closest friend turns out to be a Taurus. I don't go looking for them, but instead am gravitated to them (before I even realize they're a bully headed earth sign like myself).
I have an intense attraction to Virgos and Scorpios . . . But can either never land one, or pin one down long enough.
I almost always end up with air and fire signs - mainly libras - who eventually end up irritating the piss out of me. Cancers also aggrivate me, though as a whole, not just in regards to romantic relationships. I won't go near them or subject myself to situations where they're involved.
These things usually play out before I'm ever aware of an individuals sign, so I find it fascinating when similar situations turn out to involve the same signs.
Thoughts, observations, virgos?