Thanks earthangel2! right back at ya!

Thanks VoplySoply I am definitely upset with myself for allowing lust to enter our relationship.

Hey,

I have decided to tell the Pisces I've been seeing that it's not going to work out and I don't know how to go about it without really hurting her. A long story short. We met online and were attracted to each other, but she has two kids from different fathers and I told her from the beginning that I was not interested in dating anyone with kids. However, we hung out a few times and became intimate quickly. So I stepped back to re-evaluate things because I don't want to hurt her. I think she is a really amazing women but I'm not ready to take on a women with two kids. If she only had one it would be a lot easier but I want kids of my own and I could barely afford one right now let alone 3 if her and I had one. I am 34 years old and I realize a lot of women over 25 have kids and I know it's not going to be easy for a guy my age to find a single women with no kids, but I'm not ready to give up looking yet. There are still a lot of 27 to 30 year old women who don't have kids.

Anyway, do any of you have advice? We both care a lot about each other and we have been up front honest with each other from the beginning. I Told when were first started hanging out that I was re-evaluating my stance on dating a women with kids, and I truly was, but I have now decided that I don't that at this point in my life. We have only been talking for a few months, and have hung out like 3 times in person. Her and I both admit that we have a tendency to jump into relationships to quickly, and that's exactly what we did. Once it gets physical, and it doesn't work out, someone always gets hurt. This sucks

earthangel2

I think what you wrote could be true. I will say that all my Cancer male friends are definitely a go with the flow type of people and that alone is enough scare away most Taureans lol! You Taureans need material security as much as we Cancer's need emotional security! I think the strong will of a Taurus keeps the Cancer from being the person he wants to be, and that is a provider and protector. And you Taureans are incredibly self sufficient which makes it hard for a Cancer to feel like they are needed and desired. From my experience with Taureans they are not very emotionally compatible with Cancer's and that is a big problem.

Let me know your thoughts Taureans!

earthangel2 This is a different Pisces than the one I went on a date with that didn't seem interested to be there. To be honest, I find her to be a lot more deep, and far more compassionate and understanding than my ex Overall my experience with a Pisces so far is that we are way more alike on a mental/spiritual level, but that is good and bad. We may be a little too much alike. lol

clawswriter67 thanks for the advice!

Thanks everyone!! Things are going pretty good but I've decided that her and I need to step back right not because we jumped into a physical relationship very quickly and we need to slow down so we don't get caught up in lust, which can complicate everything. I am not sure that I want to get serious with a mother right now, and in case you're wondering, I did let her know that going into this. I'm not into hurting people or playing head games so I have told her that we need to slow down so no one gets hurt.

If any of you are having any luck in the dating world, spill the beans! It's always nice to hear about successful dating lives!

feel not "fell" lol

TaurusGirly

I think you are doing the right thing. If he left he may be thinking things though or he may be interested in someone else, or, playing the field to make sure you are the right one for him. Either way you should move on with your life if you can and see other people. I know it's not easy but it would be for the best. As they say, there are plenty of fish in the sea. I personally do not believe in the "one". If that were true, no one would ever get divorced or remarried. Take this time to examine yourself and make sure you want to be with him because he makes your life better, not because you feel like you can't live without him. If the latter is the reason you want him back, you need to do some soul searching and figure out why you're not happy on your own. I know what it feels like to "need" someone and I believe we fell that way when we have unresolved issues in our life.

Hope this helps Don't give up and love and finding the right man. And it's nice to hear a Taurus talk about compassion and forgiveness. The Taurus's I've met on here have been very kind and thoughtful.

Hey everyone!

I just thought I would give a quick update on my dating life. I am seeing a Pisces and things have been going good so far. She has two children, who I have not met in person yet, so we'll have to see how that goes. I wasn't really looking for a women with kids but I am 34 so I need to be open to it. She is kind, compassionate, logical, and doesn't believe she is perfect (which is very refreshing in this day in age). People are so full of themselves these days. It makes me sick. Anyway, I'm enjoying my time with this women.

I hope you are all doing well and I miss talking to you!

Take Care!

TaurusGirly Hey

I have found that we Cancer men are very attracted to Taurus women. However, in my personal experience I don't think I would date another unless I was certain she had control of her stubbornness. I don't deal well with stubbornness or cockiness, and I have found most of my Taurus friends to be just that. I know that not all Taurus's are that way but I think it is a struggle for many, whether they realize it or not.

This guy may be using you physically so be careful. Cancer's are known for having weak control over physical attraction and will unintentionally, or intentionally, use women.

I like women who are very logical and not overly dramatic or gossipy. I love a women who is compassionate, understanding, and can take a little criticism. If you are the type of women who is never wrong, that is a deal breaker for me. If you always point your finger at others when someone calls you out on something that is another deal breaker for me. I am also not attracted to social lights. If you don't enjoy a lot of one on one time I would be put off by it. I can be jealous and don't want a women who enjoys a lot of attention from other men.

Hope this helps some