Thank you for your time and insight Captain! Even though it is tough to hear, I know it's for the best.
Thank you so much for your insight Captain! So much of what you said rang true with him, it's amazing.
The only question I suppose I still have is do you see him returning to me in the future? As in restarting communication, not professing any kind of romantic love as you mentioned it wouldn't be possible for us...And in that case, what should I do? Do I just ignore him in an effort to protect myself or should I try to be his friend? Right now, it seems impossible for me to speak to him platonically, but if that's what I should do to move, then so be it.
Thanks again for your insight and your time in assisting me with this! I truly appreciate it!
I am humbly requesting a reading on a love relationship that has me confused and very depressed. I met this man through an online dating website in November. I truly felt a special connection to this man and I thought I had finally found the one. He was very slow, but I still felt as if we were going somewhere. As the weeks progressed, he started distancing himself from me (he remarked once that I was very assertive and it scared him a bit) and ultimately, after I showed a large gesture of affection (not psychical but moreso a gift), I felt that he was just playing games. He was still on the dating site, and I couldn't see how he could possibly get serious about me if he was still "looking" for someone better.
I ended up breaking things off right before the New Year. A couple weeks later, after realizing how much I felt for him, I tried contacting him, telling him I missed him and such, and I never heard back...
I've tried to move on since then (about two months now) and I haven't been able to. Even though I date around, I can't find someone who comes close. I suppose my question is: is there any chance of reconciliation? When the relationship fell apart, I consulted a psychic who stated that he was the love of my life and that we would be married eventually. I was very skeptical at first since the relationship was falling apart, but I still think about the prediction from time to time.
Where should I go from here? Should I take his absolute silence as a sign to move on, or should I wait? I do believe I fell in love with him and I would give anything to hear from him again and give our relationship another shot.
My birthday is 7/19/1988 and his is 3/2/1980. Thank you from the bottom of my heart for anyone that can provide any insight at all.
Blessings to all,