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    • RE: Why do Cancer Men do wrong, then make you feel like you did wrong ?

      @ LeoGrl811

      One of my ex's was a Fire sign "Aries". We split over the fact she always lacerated my feelings with her hurtful words. Although, there was a strong magnetic attraction - I did love many things about her and other Fire signs...the fiery, hot temper and craziness makes for some amazing passion under the sheets.....

      I don't fully agree when you say we can't commit 100%......I think it's always the other way around...let me remind you cancerians generally don't like to break up a relationship...not until it becomes unbearably difficult....it's just that we lack the bluntness to express our unhappiness in a relationship..once committed, we lack the courage to tell a loved one on her face that "we're over".....even then, we're unlikely to cheat on her and would rather suffer in silence...we'll be secretly praying for the day you break it up......we just don't want to hurt your feelings .

      posted in Astrology
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    • RE: Why do Cancer Men do wrong, then make you feel like you did wrong ?

      @ Greystar

      You're welcome if I could be of any help with the insights. To answer your queries:

      "Do Cancer males tend to express their emotions for another person's through actions before they are comfortable with words?"

      You must know cancerians also tend to be excellent communicators. SOOTHING Words even if they can sometimes feel shallow, are quite welcome in my book. But yes, sometimes we do feel annoyed over empty platitudes or meaningless formalities...especially, from people who are utterly dislikable. If I like you, I'll tolerate all your failings without showing signs of irritation..

      It must be added the only sign I have trouble communicating with is Capricorn. We are zodiac opposites and even based on real-life experiences, I feel as if these capricornians think exactly 180 degrees opposite to us. Communicating with this one sign has always been a failure for me. Why do they always have to run in the opposite direction. Too much conflict over nothing!! And as you know, cancerians dislike unnecessary conflicts.

      Unlike another water sign (Pisces), we cancerians are more relaxed when it comes to human limitations: it's not a minus point if you can't give us those emotional "highs" - you can always compensate for it by good sex and food 🙂

      In contrast, Pisceans tend to be much more occultish. They look for hidden meanings in each and every expression of life. Cancerians are psychic too but not to the degree of Piscesians.

      "Also, insight into the cancer need for space periodically.. is that where they are processing something of a deep nature before they come out of their "shell" so to speak again?"

      Could be - but not necessarily. We don't need that space to get away from YOU....it's like we are on a constant path of self-discovery and require moments of privacy to reflect on our life events...or, just to meditate in silence....we can probably do without those moments or even delay them if we already have good company...so, if you succeed in keeping us very busy we won't have the need to go out alone for a very long time..

      but yes, we do need those moments sometimes to relish our own company.....and mind you, cancerians do enjoy their own company a lot....unlike many other signs we aren't scared of being alone.....you can find us drinking alone in a pub..taking lone vacations to a foreign country...some of us even have the tendency to switch off the cellphone and avoid contact with family and friends.....but, not the special loved one...she has a very different significance in our lives....:)

      posted in Astrology
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    • RE: Ladies and Gentlemen Reader, May I Kindly Ask for a reading Please?

      Guys....let's not discourage anyone who comes for a reading in this place. It is what this forum is meant for. If you don't have the expertise or time to do a psychic evaluation, don't discourage others from doing the same.

      I'm trying to learn Tarot on my own accord. I wish I could help this man.

      posted in Psychic
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    • RE: CANCER ever truly move on?

      Depending on how badly you screwed up with her, she might have 1) decided to permanently press the delete button on you/or keeping you in the just friends zone OR 2) waiting for you to undo the damage and start over a new leaf.

      It's just that when a cancerian's feelings are deeply involved into something and we notice a betrayal of trust, it shocks us like a sudden jolt of electricity.....we need time to recuperate from the damage caused to our emotional beings...

      Relationship with a cancer is like a pane of glass....when the going is smooth, the cancer would shine in all its glory and give 200% to the relationship...however, the moment some serious damage is caused to her emotional being, it's like a big splinter in the glass which won't repair.

      Now, let's cut into the chase and let me offer some insights into what can help you win her back:

      1. First, try to contact her all over again. Apologize, once, if needed. Giver her a warm hug and kiss. But, don't bring up that subject again. Just tell her once, "I don't know what I did last time hurt you so much but whatever it is, it won't happen again. I can't live without you." Show her how much you miss her. How much you need her. She'd be more receptive to those forward-looking promises than a million apologies.

      2. Take her out to a candle-light dinner or a very romantic setting. Be original and creative. It should be important to make her feel that every moment is special.

      3. Express your generosity and self-lessness in love. Show her that she means to you more than all the money and possessions you have.

      4. Of course, a little bit of humour and finesse is needed apart from the mushy stuff. Cancerian females desire intelligent lovers so prove you're one of them. In fact, try to prove you're the only one for her.

      5. Another thing that might curry favour for you is to express your own vulnerable side. Bring down that external demeanour and show her the loneliness, pain and fatigue inside your heart. Cancerian females usually have strong maternal instincts so you've got to make her start caring for you again. As long as you remain the "tough guy", she might not warm up to you readily. She wants to see your sensitive side.

      posted in Love & Relationships
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    • RE: Why do Cancer Men do wrong, then make you feel like you did wrong ?

      As a cancer male, I'm deeply intrigued by the intensity, mystery and passion of scorpio females. I'm also a little bit prejudiced in the way I seem to get along best with all the water signs including other cancers and pisceans -- so if I show any signs of favouritism and partiality, these signs would benefit 🙂

      Call me an irrational fool but I'm looking forward to my specially-made heavenly match with one of the water signs. If it happens, it would be like a dream come true.

      Now, to answer the concerns by kaplow and doublescorpio:

      First of all, I totally empathise with your situations and relationship troubles. Now, this is one quality you will find in immeasurable amounts among us cancerians. We empathise with living creatures to such an extent it might lead to our own detriment....we don't care even though we're often accused of being selfish and egotistical...nothing could be further from the truth.

      it's just that unlike other signs, we don't want to "express" that inner sanctum to the outside world. We live in self-imposed crab-like shells of our own making. Our thoughts, our true feelings, our inner mind.....we believe they should not be the business of outsiders...it's like a strong privacy thing and we guard it to such an extent even loved ones including family members aren't allowed to get into this temple of sanctity.

      Ever see when a cancer is in the midst of a crisis or problem situation, he turns to noone for kind words...he would rather sulk in the corner than seek help....this is what other signs would perceive as "running away from the problem"....it's not like we're running scared of the problems. Just that when our feelings are deeply involved into something and we notice a betrayal of trust, it shocks us like a sudden jolt of electricity.....we need time to recuperate from the damage caused to our emotional beings...

      Relationship with a cancer is like a pane of glass....when the going is smooth, the cancer would shine in all its glory and give 200% to the relationship...however, the moment some serious damage is caused to his emotional being, it's like a big splinter in the glass which won't repair.

      Now, what causes a damage like this. As doublescorpio rightly said, we "like to preserve our self-image" at any cost, and the moment you challenge it, it leads to terrible repercussions in our emotional states. It's not like we can't handle the truths but it's just that from a close relationship, we seek "nourishment" to feed our self-image egos. We don't need your discouragement....that's what we've been getting from the whole world.....the last person I'd expect it is from you...who happens to be the most important person in my life.

      Why do cancers attach so much importance to our self-images? This is because we've built it over a lifetime.....being true idealists, we've worked very hard and gone through all the crap in the world to taste the feeling of accomplishment that comes with a positive self-image. For example, if a cancer male considers himself a prolific writer, he has indeed struggled very hard to taste that feeling. It's a lifetime of expectations built into creating that identity. And true, sometimes we may overestimate ourselves. But, hey, that's what the world is telling us all the time. We're fighting every moment of our lives to kill that perception the world has of our talents, abilities and desires. It is what builds that impenetrable wall of indifference cancerians are known for. By being in our shells, we are able to take all the insults, bullying and discouragement the world has in store for us. That is the source of our strength and recovery.

      However, to a close one such as a better half, we have voluntarily agreed to guard our defences so that they can sneak a peek into what is going on "inside the crab-like wall". We expect such a person to complement our self-esteem and offer plenty of words of encouragement and support. It's a matter of real privilege that is been granted after much careful consideration. If you can't offer the much-needed support, fine, we could probably do without it. But, you have no right to violate the inner temple sanctum by your hurtful remarks and trying to prove we are worthless. When a very close and loved one calls me worthless, I tend to take it very literally.

      Seeing how vulnerable cancers are deep inside, I hope it answers your query on why we can be so indifferent to even loved ones when our needs are suppressed and self-image torn apart. Yes, we are sensitive to a fault. Yes, we can't fight back those feelings of vulnerability as good as other signs do. Yes, we'd rather move on from such a person who causes so much irreparable damage to our identities. Yes, we can be like cry-babies when it comes to our very closed ones. But, that doesn't make us immature. In fact, many of us are very professional at work and can be social butterflies too. However, if you want to scale that wall of indifference for cancerians, you'll have to agree to our pact, as per our terms and conditions. You cannot breach that contract of not supporting us...and whatever we want to be.

      Lastly, if you're wondering, how to win a distraught cancer male back, I don't know the recipe may vary from individual to individual, but you should know you've already caused a splinter in the glass pane and it might be impossible to heal that crack. Without access to our inner sanctums, you'd never really know what went wrong - WE'LL NEVER TELL YOU.

      However, showing strong love and appreciation might win us back. As cancerians are always emotionally insecure, your chances at winning him back is to prove your love to him....all over again, in a creative manner...show him "why you can't live without him" and "what he means to you in your life". Show him how you will always "protect him from the whole world..no matter what happens". When a cancer is lonely and depressed, it's like he's on a sinking Titanic-like ship. Show him how you would rescue him as he drowns.

      And, if you laugh at any of these concerns, it's probably you haven't "empathised" with the cancerian mindset.

      Also, don't try to show cancerians any charity disguised as love. He will come to you when he realises you really need him. Getting love based on someone's charity is too much for cancer's ego. He deserves to be the one and only in your life even though he will continue to mask those feelings with a layer of indifference.

      Cancerians are silent creatures and rarely, if at all express anger or disappointment with any perceived betrayal of the inner sanctum. However, still waters run deep.

      Cancerians do love to communicate very well...but slightly, on our own terms. As we happen to be the most emotionally vulnerable signs, we need to take extra precautions in guarding the inner sanctum.

      Well, as you can see I might have gone a bit overboard in sentimentality while writing this post. It's one more ethereal quality of being a cancerian. We experience a sea of emotions from the practical to the impractical.

      posted in Astrology
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      Cancerking